What precautions would you take?

Most of the precautions we suggest around here ensure that you won't be TOFTT, and if you are very well versed in what to look for, and which types of ads to avoid at all costs, my advice to you is simply "don't do it"

but I will throw you a bone, one precaution you should definitely take if you are still going to TOFTT against all the good advice here is "bring plenty of bail money" Sorry, but that's the best I've got for you today.

Do as much research as you can. Google name, number, pictures and anything else you can find. Don't take anything with you that you can't afford to lose if it doesn't work out and keep your mouth shut when the cops show up.

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Have gotten no hits on her number or pix and no reviews that I can find.  
But she is advertising on a reputable site (not BP) and in our conversation, seemed genuine.  

All I can say is good luck.  

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When you say no hits on number or pix, what do you mean?  Nothing bad I hope.  No reviews is not necessarily bad, as many providers don't want them.  Your comment about her sounding genuine is a no brainer.  Of course she's gonna sound that way, she wants your money, one way or the other.

There is no LE check, or anything else you can do about it. Now arrest is one thing, conviction is a different matter. but let's save that subject for another time.

"IF" she is advertising on a site like P411 or one of the other verification sites, you can breathe a little easier, but you still aren't totally safe. If you found her on Eros or some other escort mall, you are no better off than BP.

As for putting down the envelope, I would wait until you've at least gotten yourself a welcome kiss, or some other physical act that puts you a little more at ease. I would not simply drop it the moment you walk into the room on a TOFTT. This won't get you out of getting arrested if she is LE, but it might keep you from getting ripped off if she starts in with the old "Money first baby" and their is a slight chance that if she is LE and she starts pushing for the money that you might get tipped off and although you won't avoid arrest, it "might" give your lawyer some wiggle room.

My only other suggestion other than "don't do it" is to keep your money in your pocket until she makes some kind of physical gesture like a DFK, none of this is foolproof, but it gives you a fighting chance. I would also lose the envelope, count out the donation and keep in one pocket with everything else in another. Again, it won't keep you from getting arrested, but an envelope containing the exact amount of money as is on her internet ad is awfully damning if you ever end up in court. I don't care what you have heard, envelopes increase your risks, they don't decrease them.

Good Luck

Thanks Swim.  

and they bend the rules themselves. I have heard of an incident where the cop arrested the girl after the session took place lol.  

Thanks GG.  

LE is much less likely to bust a situation where they come to you.

If you must go to her incall, avoid at all cost any motel where the parking lot is visible from the room.  LE loves those set ups.

Get there early and check out the lot for police cars, or unmarked Crown Vics.  Abort if you see any around.  Don't park in the lot.  Park a few blocks away and walk to the place.  You don't want LE seeing your vehicle.

Don't go through with any date if she tries to get you to talk about sex or money in phone calls or emails or texts.

If anything strikes you as off, don't go through with it.

The odds are with you, but good luck anyways.

Thanks Mr. F

pass and count your blessings you weren't ripped off, beat to a pulp (i.e. pimp, etc.

separate the amount either . ask to meet her for a drink or something a light lunch . and get a feel for the situation . just an idea  

Thanks again for all your suggestions.