My second encounter with a provide (full body massage with mutual touch) and it went quite well. After everything was done, we were getting dressed and she requested I not post a review online, and specifically mentioned TER.

My dilemma is, she is my 2nd encounter, and I was hoping to write the review and upgrade to a premium membership. I let it ride for 4 or 5 weeks, but I really would like to post something on here and open the full potential of TER. What should I do?

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Respect her wishes. It's just that simple. Not every lady wants reviews. The chances are she will have it taken down anyway if you do put one up.

If you have no interest in seeing this woman again and you don't think you will ever want to see any other providers that she might know, then post the review.

Sure you piss the lady off by not respecting her explicit and reasonable wishes.  But hey, you save yourself a few bucks and get to tap into TER for a month.  Then you can go out and do it all over again, but not with her or any of her friends.

Or ... you could simply pay a relatively small fee to TER and have access to the entire site.  Then you could find other providers, maybe even using this particular lady as a reference, and write subsequent reviews of them.  Thereby, you can keep your TER VIP status active without paying any more money to get that valuable information.

I know what I would do.

She obviously has her reasons and as long as she is not a ripoff I don't see why you should post one against her wishes.

If no reviews is part of her business model & screening, then follow her request.  I there was a scam, upsell or other bad experience that you need to warn others about the post on the scam section.  
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would be to warn others if she is a rippoff or not as advertised. If you enjoy her company and would like to see her again it would not be wise to post a review. She may have very good reasons for not wanting a review.

Please don't be an ass and post a review just to save a few bucks. You have no idea why she does not want reviews...and she is not refusing reviews for bad service...you can attest to that.

And let me tell you, piss her off and you might end up on a DNS list. And she especially asked not to on TER...why is that so hard for you to honor?

Be careful, it could come back to bite you in the ass, just when you least expect it.

With NO reviews that could could put a hobbyist on a DNS list for the smallest of inconsequential matters.
It is a risk you take by seeing a provider with NO reviews anyhow.

No scams or warning...moving on. Thanks for the advice.