I am rather curious why some providers require an additional donation for enjoying the Greek way. Am not saying providers do not deserve what they ask for, just curious, thanks.
cause they can. Some ladies love it and have included it in their regular price, some only offer it with an extra charge (regardless of how much they like or don't like it). I've seen some ladies charge an extra $50 for it, and I saw a lady once charge double her hourly rate for it. It's just another way they can make some extra $$, that's all. Yes I know it may take a bit more "prep" than a routine session might require but the cost to get ready is never equal to the extra donation required.
FWIW.. I'm torn on the idea of whether it should be extra or included. I, myself, am not big on Greek though I've tried it 2 or 3 times. So while I would like it to be included cause I think it would make pricing easier and simpler I'm not sure I'd like to pay for a service I have little interest in partaking in. If I had to pick, I'd prob say I'd prefer it just be included. But that's just me.
Nah I disagree. It's like Lexus trying to make profit from options where Mercedes gives it as standard. Most don't deserve it so I go with interns.
Depending on the individuals involved, it can HURT and although I enjoy it with the right person, the right person isn't always the one present.
I charge extra knowing there is a real possibility that extra discomfort might be involved.
Any thoughts on that?
"No pain no gain" comes to mind
Irrelevant?
and it is not because "they can," as the more crass among us would like to believe. it is because of the extra care and prep involved before and during the act (and this is not simply about "cost," it is an involved physical process), it is because for most women the act will indeed be painful, perhaps EXTREMELY painful, a great deal of the time, and it is because the activity places a female at a far greater risk for physical injury (which may be permanent) and not to mention the increased STD risks, condoms or no.
i have never and would never engage in such an act with clients, for all the reasons listed above, and one more: i could only ever have that level of trust with my Husband. so at this point in my life it is for him alone. and for those who believe the risks to be exaggerated, i know a woman who ended up wearing a colostomy bag for a year after her first time having sex with her boyfriend. and in my late teen years i had the horrendous experience of requiring two stitches and many months of recovery after having anal sex with a fellow who was entirely too aggressive. so i have no trouble at all understanding why many providers charge more to engage in such activities, and for me personally no price is worth it.
and it is not because "they can," as the more crass among us would like to believe. it is because of the extra care and prep involved before and during the act (and this is not simply about "cost," it is an involved physical process), it is because for most women the act will indeed be painful, perhaps EXTREMELY painful, a great deal of the time, and it is because the activity places a female at a far greater risk for physical injury (which may be permanent) and not to mention the increased STD risks, condoms or no.
i have never and would never engage in such an act with clients, for all the reasons listed above, and one more: i could only ever have that level of trust with my Husband. so at this point in my life it is for him alone. and for those who believe the risks to be exaggerated, i know a woman who ended up wearing a colostomy bag for a year after her first time having sex with her boyfriend. and in my late teen years i had the horrendous experience of requiring two stitches and many months of recovery after having anal sex with a fellow who was entirely too aggressive. so i have no trouble at all understanding why many providers charge more to engage in such activities, and for me personally no price is worth it.
It can be painful although i do looove it if the guys is the right size and willing to ease into it. There is more prep. and I personally feel more comfortable doing it with a gentlemen who really wants it and planned ahead to spend more to do it... instead of a guy in the middle of a session deciding to "try" it...
I can not imagine what this is about or at what point this weakness might happen i have been partaking as often as i do regular sex for about 10 yrs and i just find honestly my muscles are strionger not weaker at all. Like as in I have wayyyyy more control in the area now than i did when i started as in much more.in fact i can actually milk someone with mine as you would with your hand and was not able to do that when i started i can honestly say i have no idea what this is about .It has never happened to me ..going on 11 yrs now at least a few time a week ,IDK i think that someone like the catholic church may have made this up honestly lol .Perhaps i could be wrong or maybe it is not something thathappens to everyone I do know it is mostly in the head as far as it hurting meaning , being able to control the muscles is what getting it in without pain is about relaxing ... seriously , if somehow you can not control your muscles to relax or tighten or milk i guess the experience is not the same ,personlly i can come this way though at times more easily than straight sex..Lianna
then all the blood rushed from my head to my nether regions and I passed out. LOL!
If the service (Greek) is painful for you, then why offer it? If it's not about the money and more about the prep work/time and the pain it inflicts then why even bother??
I can't fathom why someone would offer a service that hurts them, regardless of how much extra they can make. Is there a certain $$ where the extra cash makes it all worth it?
This "crass" individual is curious... (smh..)
...but all the difficulties/pain/risks involved are precisely why many of us do NOT offer it. obviously some are different, and are willing to put up with the discomfort and risk factors involved for a larger income, which i can understand if they are in this business primarily to earn the greatest amount of money in the shortest amount of time. it should also be noted again that every woman is different, and there are some who are mentally and physically well-conditioned to the act and so are not as likely to have such a difficult experience. but even for those brave ladies, they are well-deserving of an additional rate. as one young woman noted here, she is much more comfortable engaging in anal sex with a man who has planned for it and has set his mind specifically to the task (and likely has experience), than place herself in the highly dangerous situation of being with a man who gets all hot and bothered in the heat of the moment and wants to try something new.
We charge more because it's not standard. These ladies have all made valid points. As providers we all have to enjoy some aspects of our job or we wouldn't be here. Variety is the spice of life. Isn't that why you got into the hobby? We all provide essentially the same thing ( in different forms and fashion) if you want the extras you should have to pay for it.