Any tips on what I should do ...I'm a willing client that can't get passed the screening ........

Unless you share what the issue is, nobody can help you problem solve.  

You can call the people at P411 and they can screen you in some creative ways. Then look for newbie friendly ladies there (profiles will specify if ladies are newbie friendly).

Most newbies experience the same thing.  Sarah gave you some good advice.  Gina at P411 is pretty good at working with guys to get them verified.  It's better to give personal info to one site to get verified than to spread your info out among a number of providers until you can get some references.

Dude . . .  bro  . . . Sarah is right, get p411.  When I use p411, I seem to have best results when I send a Request an Appointment form thru p411 about one week in advance.  In the ReqAppt form I indicate the date and time I am looking for, and if I have some flexibility about date or time I put alternate dates and times choices in the message as well.  Also, I ask for a respone either thru p411 as a private message or to my private hobby email.  From then on, the communication is usually by private hobby email to finalize and confirm plans.  Of course on the day of appt, i use my hobby phone as needed.