I see lots of post on craigslist.com and I see alot of girls who post services, my question is how am I able to determine the legit girls from the entrapments?  last thing I need is to go to jail.  any advice? not all girls there have reviews.

Thats why you do not see any of the women from CL.  Jail is not as big of a problem on Craigs list (although possible), the main thing is most of the posts are rip offs.  Yes they all look great and have great rates but guess what, that's because they want you to come to thier hotel room with $200 in cash that they can part from you.  Go up to the "reviews" tab at the top of this forum, then click on ripoffs on the left, you will see how many guys get ripped of who try to go for the "great deal" off of craigslist or other escort listing sites.

SO what do you do?  Search for a girl on this site, make sure she has at least 5 reviews over 3 months time and then look at the guys that wrote the reviews, is this thrier only review or have they done many over many months.   If it all checks out kosher then you are in for a good time.

If not then do not come back here crying after you have been jacked for a few hundred and got to stare at a pair of breasts for 10 minutes.

do your homework here at TER..

To go Reviews.
Search reviews.
Put in her phone number and search


stay away from CL

Avoid CL!

Do some homework here and get an idea of which local providers you might want to see.  Since you're new, stick to well-reviewed providers.  Then, do more homework, and make sure you don't do or say the wrong things... like don't mention sex and money.  In fact, don't mention sex OR money.  You should already have a good idea what her rates are (from the linked website), and you should know what to expect from looking at her reviews.

On the DC rip-offs, there is only ONE lady who was listed from CL, and that wasn't even the DC CL but the list from LA.

You shouldn't make bottom line all-inclusive statements like this.  Many ladies on CL are ripoffs, but many ladies on EROS, CityVibe and other mallsa are ripoffs as well.

Most of what I see from CL reviews is that the basic services were provided but with no spark or enthusiasm.  I see that all the time on NON CL reviews as well.

You take a risk anytime you decided to run point for a girl from ANY site that doesn't have any reviews.

beefcake i dont understand your advice, he is suppose to go find well reviewd girls that has at least 3 months of things said about them, but just like he's NEW and wants someone to give him a chance, there's a provider that's new, and is getting kicked just for that simple fact, (being new)  advice given like that makes it hard for new providers such as myself to get started off.
thanks

I'm not saying that we should all stay away from new providers, but that the new guys should.  I'm still one of those, and the head with the brain inside it tells me to be careful.

This is a very hard hobby to get into for both sides.  As a new hobbyists, I get the distinct feeling that most of the providers don't take me seriously... hence the lack of returned e-mails or phone calls.  I can't say that I'm surprised.

If I was a new provider, I'd be looking for an experienced hobbyist who has done a LOT of reviews... and I'd make sure he left happy and wrote a review.

As for myself, I saw my first provider last week.  She was fairly new, but had some reviews on another board.  A couple of the reviewers have been around, so I trust their reviews of her.

As I gain some more connections in the hobby, I might be more willing to see new providers, but not yet, and I wouldn't advise other new guys to do it either.  Those with experience are the best for showing new people the ropes, and lots of reviews are the mark of someone with experience.

Good luck up in NYC, Ashanti.  I'm sure you'll get things rolling soon enough.  Just be persistent and keep yourself safe.