why do girls take calls and schedule appointments as if they actually going to show then dont even after you give them the address they agree on details... still no show... what is the purpose?

Unfortunate but it happens on both sides of this game.  

did to them what they did to you.

Sort of like a circle jerk, but not fun.

I suppose in a few cases the guy got cold feet, or reality reared its ugly head and he had some work or domestic situation to attend, and didn't have the courtesy to call

reminds me when i was in medical school couldn't get a job cause i had no experience. you have to start somewhere i just wish all these time wasters weren't at a all time high i'm putting myself out there i cant get reviews if everyone is so timid about seeing me

Where are you located?

It's just one of the pitfalls of the hobby.  There are many reasons for why it happens, some acceptable, most not.  We just have to deal with it and move on.  For you, hopefully when your rep gets more widespread, it will happen less.

LLAP,
Swim