How do you go from asking if it is tacky to ask for a whitelist after seeing a provider to asking for volunteers to just give you one after a lunch or even no meeting at all?

No it isn't tacky to ask. It is no different then a provider asking for a review. But my man..... You are going about your quest in completely the wrong way.

Many ladies don't take them at all. A longer list does seem to help with many ladies. I do ask, but I usually write the review first but there's no rule about this.

If you indeed saw a provider and had a session with her, you can ask if she would be kind enough to add a whitelist referral for you, it will be entirely up to her to decide whether or not she will do it. In my case, I only whitelist people who I feel 100% percent comfortable with during the entire session, in order not to give the wrong idea to the next lady who will be seeing this gentleman and to provide her with extreme safety. On the flipside, even when a gentleman states he is whitelisted here, I actually contact a few providers that vouched for him and ask them more specific details about that particular person in order to know exactly what to expect.

I hope this helps!

no need to ask

if a provider has enjoyed your company and feels comfortable with you as a client..she will whitelist you without you even asking..i have never felt the need to ask for one..you earn them..

you may have to ask.   I have done that.  Some ladies might want to wait until you post a review of them before giving you the OK, and decline if they don't like your review or if you don't write one.  In other words, a trade-off.  

I seriously doubt a provider is going to give you a WL referral after just meeting for lunch or a drink, it's not the same as full experience encounter.  You could be very charming over lunch and turn out to be just the opposite in bed.  It's not the same.

Swim

If so, you're crazy! Going to lunch with you does not prove a damn thing! We don't give references unless you break the law with us. Making sense now? If you have references, you don't need a white list..you have a reference just by seeing someone. For most women, we take that as a part of our job, and are happy to provide them. For others, not so much. Just depends on who you see. Some women don't give refs at all.

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