How can I go about updating an old Whitelisting? I tried today and it told me I already gave the WL and did not update it. Be better for him if he had a recent WL rather than the several year old I had given him prior.

my screen might be a bit different than yours.  There is nothing in  the self help center that says anything about updating a Whitelist referral.  Suggest you contact admin, using the 'contact us' button, and ask them directly.

And please post their response. I'm curious. I'm seeing a lady in a few weeks and could use an update...

That would have been my suggestion. (e)

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I had thought of that but I know on other sites, once you delete, you can't give it again.