buy "the business side of scorting II" it gives you all the info you need to know. rely on other providers references as well. But the most important advice i can give u , is follow ur gut. even if the guy seems to be ok, if you feel something is wrong, please dont book the client.

I hope the lovely Ciara doesn't mind

This lovely lady has some excellent information that is extremely helpful for young ladies starting out under PHD at her website.


http://www.buffalocharm.com/

And if I screwed up, and she's pissed at me for giving her website out, well "No soup for me.  Come back one year" lol.

Re: Screening 101

I could write a book, but here are a few basics...

First NEVER agree to participate in ANY illegal activity, EVER...

The following applies if clients don't pay per minute fees to book appts... Get a name, number, and location before the conversation begins unless it appears on caller ID. Interrupt them to do so if necessary.

Be flirtatious but assertive with new callers, esp if they're young and cocky or too nice. Many men will call to engage you in conversation but never book an appt.. Focus on booking; never engage in small talk beyond the time necessary to gauge his personality, needs, and price point.

Some, usually younger guys, are just curious. They've never called an escort before and they feel naughty. It's like the prank calls they made in grade school. I know them by their cocky attitude and nervous laughter. They'll keep you online until you terminate the call or they can't hold their laughter anymore.

The most dangerous are "Regular Johns"; so named b/c they will stalk you by phone. They're too nice, ask too many questions, and talk too much. Their goal is to keep you online as long as possible. It's a perverse thrill for them to waste your time; like they're getting free phone sex. Regular Johns are harder to distinguish b/c they're very nice and professional.

I recognize them by their effort to keep the topic off scheduling and eventual focus on sexual conversation. They succeed by manipulating you; need to know more about you, ect. If you engage them, they'll continually drive the conversation back to sex. They may finally let you attempt booking; then quickly distract you w/ minutia. If you get this far, you're a target; they'll call repeatedly with new names and numbers.

So remember, time is money. Don't let these men waste yours!!!