I cany"t seem to find the self help link that was recomended for us newbies. Can anyone help me? Not good with PC. Thanks

Click on the 'Back to Forum' button, which returns you to the Newbie forum's main page. See the life preserver icon towards the upper right of your screen? Click on the 'Self-Help Center' link right below it. You're on your own from there.

look to the top right under the life ring.  Or click on the link below...  

[url=ttp://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=33&Page=1&Messageid=75528] Self Help Section [/url]