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twig1234 2064 reads
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Hello TER!

If I meet a provider for the first time, would it be alright to ask her if I can use her as a reference?  Or should I meet her a few more times then ask?  Should I not ask at all?  Im confused about this.  Thanks in advance!

CindyGold1540 reads

Different providers have differing policies on this... Some will give a reference after only seeing a person once... others will want to see him several times before adding him to a white list etc.  The reasoning behind the latter is- any guy can be on his *best* behavior ONCE, while several experiences is often more telling... The best policy is to just ask the girl herself! Good luck.

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TheCyclist954 reads

them after 1 appointment? That doesn't seem right to me.

They could at least say the guy isn't LE, but I only saw him once.

I wish those that didn't want to act as a reference would state that on their sites, but I am sure nobody would do that.

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CindyGold1457 reads

I recommend ladies to my regulars and/or give/recieve references from people that have only visited once, all the time... Many people do exactly as you decribed- and say "the guy isn't LE, but I only saw him once." As I said, you see the multiple visit thing more often with white-lists!  This is because A LARGE NUMBER of ladies will be put in harm's way if you accidentially WHITE-LIST a jerk, as opposed to giving him a reference to see just ONE lady...

My .2 cents.

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Blissful_Belle1202 reads

Good advice Cindy!! And i always try to be prompt when returning an email or voicemail. Helps im sure. Thanks to all the gals who have helped me the same way :)

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twig12341974 reads

Thank you for taking the time to help me out, and pointing me in the right direction.

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