Newbie - FAQ

When does the time start/end and question?
tcc1718 1579 reads
posted
1 / 16

Hey, newbie here looking to meet a provider for the first time. I was just wondering, if I book an hour with a girl, when does the hour start? Is it the moment she enters the door, or when she has finished "freshing" up in the bathroom and comes to the bed? Also, does the time end when I cum or when she leaves the door? Thanks for answers ahead of time.

Also, for outcalls is it common for girls to ask for name and room number? I'm kinda uncomfortable with giving my name.

1192967 45 Reviews 912 reads
posted
2 / 16

With a provider you have not seen before you should assume the times starts as soon as she walks in the door. If your appointment is one hour then the appointment will end one hour from when she walked in the door. Whether you cum after 10 minutes, 30 minutes, or 50 minutes she should stay for the entire hour and leave when the hour is up.
With someone you have seen before there may be some slack given in regard to the exact time she arrives and leaves but you should never assume any more time than the hour.  

It is common for the provider to ask for your name. Usually during the screening process long before she needs to know the room number. So her asking for your name and room number isn't unusual.

You say you are a newbie so I'm guessing you don't have any references. In order for her to screen you and determine if she will see you she will likely ask for your name. Be prepared to give her that information.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 747 reads
posted
3 / 16

Every provider is a little different.  Since I'm buying her time, for me usually for an hour on the first date, I arrive a few minutes before the hour we've agreed upon, which is usually at the top of the hour. I'm getting good at showing up right on time, so for me the hour begins when she opens the door, most providers usually come to the door ready to go, but I've seen a few who let me in and then head back to the bathroom for their finishing touches. If she spends just a few minutes in the bathroom, that's fine anything longer, well than you're in  a sticky situation.

Sometimes, if I don't feel fresh I'll ask If I can take a quik rinse in the shower.   All of these activities go against the hour.  Then sometimes, we have a little intro conversation before the fun, again, the clock is ticking. Sometimes the conversation takes place after the first cup just depends on the session. For me the time is up after 60 minutes, not after the first cup is spilled.

Now if she keeps you waiting, and every hobbyists has encountered waiting for a provider, my hour starts when she opens the door, not the agreed upon time.  Some providers can be very talkative so you need to know how to move from the living room into the bedroom. This can be difficult for newbs, but once you've been doin' this for awhile it gets easy.

You really need to read the juicy details of the reviews to find how how a provider manages the time of the date.  If the provider rushes guys, most will note it in the review.  If the session ends after the first pop and there's lots of time left, hobbyists will normally mention this as well. If she talks a lot hobbyists will mention this as well.   Many reviewers  will use the phrase "not a clock watcher" or "generous with her time" meaning she takes her time and doesn't mind going over the agreed upon time, by a little.    Also look for the phrase MSOG, as many, but not all ladies, will offer this as long as it takes place in the agreed upon time.  

If you choose a provider carefully,  do your  research by reading all the reviews, time should not be an issue. My experience is  that "great providers" never rush their clients and can be incredibly generous with their time.  Good luck

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 465 reads
posted
4 / 16

you pretty much covered it all.  Depending on the lady, it is a def variable on when it starts.

Swim

keystonekid 114 Reviews 651 reads
posted
5 / 16

begin when your appointment was scheduled to start. Some ladies will cut you some slack on this. For this reason, I try to arrive about 10-15 minutes ahead of the scheduled start time so I am not late.

JavaMon 529 reads
posted
6 / 16

I've started having outcalls recently with a provider and have seen her several times now.  Each time she's arrived, she needs to take a shower so she doesn't smell like a chimney.  Since she has to drive about an hour to see me, I can't begrudge her for needing a fix before she arrives, but she takes long ass showers.  Her 2nd visit, she spent 40 minutes in the shower.  On her third I asked if she'd not spend so much time, so she spent 30 minutes...sigh.  I think she thinks it's ok since I book 2-3 hour dates....or she just wants the time to be over asap.
When you request her time a day or more in advanced, she should just need a freshen up shower for an outcall...not a shave her legs, pits, kitty, moisturize, the works...especially on the customers dime.  Don't get me started how she's always an hour or longer late too, lol.  But she's a great lay at a great price.

nahtynikkey See my TER Reviews 656 reads
posted
7 / 16

HH pretty much covered everything. One thing, the reason the lady asks for your name & room number, is so that she can call the hotel & make sure you're actually at that hotel, in that room. You have no idea how awful it is to drive 30min-2 hours, only to discover that there's no person registered at that room number.. or an old couple answered the door instead(yes, did happen to me 5+ yrs ago, before I use to screen, lol).

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 552 reads
posted
8 / 16

piece of friendly advice to any newbie including tcc..you will NEVER have a good time or enjoy yourself if you worry about the time..it should never enter your mind..if you worry about the clock instead of enjoying her company it will be a waste of your time..

shudaknownbetter 352 reads
posted
9 / 16

Yes, it is best to find the location in advance.  Generally guys sittin in cars outside are suspicious & likely to be checked out by LE on Patrol or Hotel Security.   I suggest arriving in advance THEN withdrawing to the coffee shop on the corner, guaging the time to return & quickly get out of your car & enter.  On a first date, that is how it works.  If it's someone I've seen several times, I may call when I get into my car accross the street & tell her where I am & "be right there".  

I too have been caught by traffic & sudden weather changes, which made me late in the first case or impossible to get there in the second.  
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Posted By: keystonekid
begin when your appointment was scheduled to start. Some ladies will cut you some slack on this. For this reason, I try to arrive about 10-15 minutes ahead of the scheduled start time so I am not late.

HeathersLuv4u See my TER Reviews 575 reads
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10 / 16
HeathersLuv4u See my TER Reviews 574 reads
posted
11 / 16

..don't have rock bottom prices (tardiness interferes w/ turn over of clients) and choose the ones that for mind if a client runs behind nor does she deduct this from their time together. Having to rush to an appt is stressful..this tends to hinder the experience. I don't know how any of y'all in those big cities get anywhere on time..ever!
So, being relaxed in your way there is recommended...but things roll off me easily...just roll with it.

kendradc2011 See my TER Reviews 459 reads
posted
12 / 16

to not have an issue at a hotel, if for some reason we don't know it well and need directions, we will go to the desk. Problem is with that they will ask us the name of the person and room number.  To not cause suspicion we need to have that information where we can say, we're having a meeting with so and so and there will be no issues.

As for when does the time start...it can start when we sit down to have a conversation with you and get to know you. It all depends on what type of girl you have hired. A Courtesan usually doesn't look at time on the hour basis. This is actually a complicated question with many answers. I would recommend you read her reviews and that should give you an indication of how she times her appointments.

kendradc2011 See my TER Reviews 900 reads
posted
13 / 16

That is the best piece of advice you could have given.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 894 reads
posted
14 / 16

Too often, I see reviews that say she let the guy go way over the time he paid for.  IMHO, it is not a good idea to put that in the review.  If you do that, every guy will expect her to do that for them.  That is not being fair to the provider.  It's another YMMV thing, you keep it to yourself and enjoy it.  Don't put her in the position of being expected to give every client extra time for no compensation.

Swim

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 838 reads
posted
15 / 16

to the desk and ask for directions.  That is something that should be handled on the phone or text msgs.  If I had to do that, I would never see that provider again.

As far as when the clock starts ticking, that's up to her.....and it varies, no set answer to that one.

Swim

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