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Freaked out Tons of Reviews
Jake9000 3358 reads
posted
1 / 19

I Have a question for the experienced Hobbyist ? I am wondering after reading a ladies extensive reviews , does this give you  reason to pause and they say god this lady has fucked and sucked a lot of dudes . I am also wondering while eating one these ladies or fucking them , i would not help but imagine how all the men that proceeded me, how do you rationalize that ? and finally how many times do you come across a provider who smells horrific ?

lisette4u See my TER Reviews 1590 reads
posted
2 / 19

the ACTUAL number of guys she has beenn with.  many under the radar gals dont even have reviews. (and just as in civie life do you REALLY know how many guys she has been with?)
as far as hygenie factor i would assume that a reputable lady would not be in business long if she did not take superior care of herself.
if you stick with highly reviewed gals in your area im sure you will find the right fit
good luck

OhioBoy58 40 Reviews 1838 reads
posted
3 / 19

The reviews showed here may or may not give any indication of how many clients a lady sees.  It is really non of your business anyway. When you are with someone you are paying for the time spent with the lady YOU PICKED.  Ladies take care of themselves very well. They wouldn't have the reviews they have if they didn't.   Sounds like you aren't ready to take on this hobby.  Its not for everybody.
Don't you take care of your business daily? Aren't you clean?
Don't you brush your teeth and floss daily.  Do you Shower?
These ladies I would think are cleaner, disease free and drug free
more so than any civie you might meet........

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 2025 reads
posted
4 / 19

Are you serious?  Ever heard of soap and water? Unless you are going to limit yourself to virgins and wayward nuns EVERY woman you are ever intimate with will have already been intimate with others...in some cases many others!

Get over it or stay away from the hobby...

Carrie Hillcrest See my TER Reviews 1307 reads
posted
5 / 19

...about your partner having been intimate with other people prior to meeting you. Seriously, REALLY the wrong hobby.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 1241 reads
posted
6 / 19

I know for a fact that many of them do not have sex with every client.  They have told me that.  But, like has already been said, if you are hung up on the number of guys a provider has been with, two things come to mind.  One, she is probably cleaner down there than the average civvie, and two, maybe this hobby isn't for you.

If you plan on continuing in the hobby, quit worrying about that.  One of my faves has over 400 reviews and I'm sure she has seen many more guys than that.  Do I worry about them?  Hell no.  I just enjoy my time with her.

Swim

keystonekid 114 Reviews 1303 reads
posted
8 / 19

virgin.com, sponsored by Proctor & Gamble, and enjoy yourself.  LOL

privateperson 1352 reads
posted
11 / 19

I agree with the original poster. If a girl sucks and fucks a ton of cocks, I rather not know!!! I avoid women with a ton of reviews...

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 1381 reads
posted
12 / 19

Too bad for you.  So don't read reviews...Easy.

Swim

RRO2610 51 Reviews 1165 reads
posted
13 / 19

The very fact it is a business means it is a relentless, on-going endeavor.

Approximately 20% of hobbyists review. That means out of a hundred penises only 20 took time to review. That's 80 cum spewing cocks you didn't think about. But Coca Cola didn't get to be "Coca Cola" by selling a couple dozen cases of its product, and even 'short term' a gal is going to be penetrated by several hundred cocks to pay the bills.

 Deep six any and all notions of “what is chase?” because they doesn’t apply here.
And YES! I have come across some malodorous vaginas; but far more often on “civvies” than on providers.

followme 1085 reads
posted
14 / 19

Avoid ladies with a ton of reviews, where do you draw the line. A half a ton of reviews , a few hundred pounds of reviews.

What the hell is a ton of reviews any way? How many ?



Thank you
XLIV = 4

Ripped_Van_Winkle 1959 reads
posted
15 / 19

I am not sure why some of the other posters are suggesting you abandon the hobby. Perhaps some of them forgot they were also newbies at one time ;)

The best advice I can give you is to not try and rationalize. As long as the provider is clean and performs well for YOU, everything else should be pretty much irrelevant or of little consequence.
If it remains an issue for you, you can always try and schedule "early" appointments or seek out providers that are more UTR.

To this day, I have not had a single smelly provider. I can't say the same about civies.

AmandaLisle See my TER Reviews 1400 reads
posted
16 / 19

I've been a provider for 8 months and maybe have a dozen reviews total on all the sites I'm on.

I know I've been with way more so does it make it any more different? Just because you don't KNOW how many, doesn't mean that there haven't actually been many.

I think to be a good hobbyist or provider you've got to not think about sex like the majority of society does. This is our job. Do you say to the dentist "Man this guy has been in loads of peoples mouths" or to a nurse ask "Man she's touched alot of patients". Once you put sex in that perspective, it stops being "that's a lot" and just shifts to... this is the woman providing me pleasure and she's really good at it.

RedCloak 6 Reviews 1110 reads
posted
17 / 19



Great response AmandaLisle!

I still get thoughts similar to what the OP was talking about.  

I think people get disgusted by a girl having 400-1000 sexual partners in 5 years because mistakenly (and subconsciously) they associate them with their ideal image of a girlfriend/lover/soulmate.  No guy wants to share that woman with another guy, yet alone 1000 guys.

For these people, it might be worth trying the following:
1. Think of providers as service providers.  (Wow! what a concept!)  You go in, have some fun, and then get back to work making tons of bucks slaving for the man.
2. Realize that your ideal image of a girlfriend/lover/soulmate is fantasy and doesn't really exist in reality as a real person.  

vamikey 74 Reviews 1000 reads
posted
18 / 19

Some years ago I was in a strip club in Atlanta & became smitten with a dancer. Bought her a lot of lap dances & hinted around at after-work activity. Long story short, she offered to come by my hotel when her shift was over for a certain price. I stopped by an ATM on the way back to hotel. Sure enough, a bit after 3:00 she knocked on my door. Had $$ troubles, needed to pay rent, etc. We had a great time, but did I think she never did this?  Only indication was she didn't have condoms so had to use mine. Didn't care if she did this once a week or I was the first guy she ever went with after dancing (doubtful). She was hot, we had a nice time, I paid her a fair price & that was it. That's what this hobby should always be like.

SaschaDoesIt See my TER Reviews 923 reads
posted
19 / 19

No doubt.  Can't speak for the other girls but 80% of my clients don't want penetration sex at all.

Sorry, but you need to rethink your hobby choices if you're concentrating on things like this.  It's the wrong way to approach your lady in EVERY sense.  If your mindset isn't there, she'll be able to tell and it'll make the whole date go south before it even starts.

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