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1) There's different rates on different sources like her ad says $$$ but website $$.5?

2) There's listed only 1hr but you'd like 90minutes or 2hr?

I do have VIP membership.

If a review on this site says her rate is $500 for one hour, bbbj, sex, nude massage... And she has plenty of positive reviews that verify that she does those things. Does that mean that I give her $500, and I get the bbbj, sex, nude massage etc...? Or do I need to negotiate, or give her more money?


If the lady's rate is $500 for the hour (and I would use her ad or website as the determining factor, not the TER rate listed on her profile), then that's the amount you pay the lady for an hour. You do NOT negotiate the fee (frowned upon by providers) NOR should you give the lady more money (frowned upn by hobbyists) The money paid should be constant; You are paying for her time only.    

Now, what services YOU get in the hour depends on the flow of the session. It is all variable; all you are doing is paying the lady to be with you for the hour. While another hobbyist may have received a shower, a massage, BBBJ to completion, some rest, follwed by round two doggie, some rest, followed by round three anal; does not mean that this is the menu you will receive. Now you can certainly expect to receive some combination of these services if the reviews reflect as such. But once you and the provider have established a comfort level with one another, you need to guide the lady as to what services are important to you. She will take your lead. Each hour flows differently, so you want to make sure it flows to your liking.

IMHO the only exception to this rule should be if the provider explicitly offers discounts (such-and-such $ off her normal rate) under specific circumstances. For examples, many providers listed on Date-Check will offer discounted rates to members based on how many verifications they have, or sometimes even for just being a Date-Check member alone. Other providers offer discounts for repeat customers, i.e. if you see her again within X number of days.

BUT... unless the provider explicitly offers discounts, NEVER NEVER NEVER negotiate the rate. No reputable provider will want to have anything to do with a cheapskate.

of variables.  For example if your hygiene is not up to par, do not expect BBBJ.  Some guys can get the first pop in the first 20 minutes and therefore have time for a round 2.

Sometimes ladies will ask a client during a first session, "What do you like"?  That is your chance to try to try to plan the menu for the day.  Remember, YMMV is always appropriate.

1) There's different rates on different sources like her ad says $$$ but website $$.5?

2) There's listed only 1hr but you'd like 90minutes or 2hr?

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