Newbie here but member since 2006 just never took the leap until now.  Planning to see a provider next month and don't want to look like an complete idiot. I'd appreciate any suggestions on where go so I know how i can protect myself and not make the provider uncomfortable. Thanks.

look for that lifesaver icon near the upper right hand corner of this forum page.

take a close look at Provider Relations 101. That's a good place to start.  

Any questions not answered in the Self-Help Center, please ask them here.
 

Read the whole self help center, it will answer most of your questions.  If you still have some after that, come back here and ask.

Swim

Thanks for the GREAT advice. Everyone is always willing to lend a helping hand when needed. THANKS!!