Is it OK to ask about donations on this site?

If not, pls excuse me as i am a newbie here.

I've got a real good question but not sure if i'm stepping into the 'no-go' zone.

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ask away.

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an honest sincere question is usually tolerated, but if anything is deemed inappropriate, the moderator will simlpy delete the post.

Please be aware that you may need to have answers backchanneled to you via TER's PM system, or your own email.
This is pretty common procedure around here for any sensitve issue or sometimes just by personal preference to remain discreet and confidential.

best regards, mr.man

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O.K. here's my question or inquiry and i'll try to use analogies vs. blatant descriptions.

I’ll start off by saying I’m relatively new to this and have only been provided for on 3 occasions so far and 2 of those have been the reason for this inquiry.

When acquiring the services of a provider, there is a fee for companionship …say $300 for the hour.  And we all know the fee is for the provider’s time and companionship only; not sex because that would be illegal in most places.  

First two providers wanted to charge a lot more for sharing cocktails, appetizers, and much more for the main course (analogy of course).  Basically, the $300 paid for them to be in my company but to share a drink or do anything other than sit and look at each other, the wanted double and triple the fee.  Almost as if they were trying to price themselves right out of doing anything.  #3 one was more like described in the ‘juicy details’ of the reviews.  

So my question is this … in the reviews on this site, is the fee that is listed what the final donation was or is the final actually more and my experience with #1 & #2 the norm?

I guess my problem with 1 & 2 was I discussed fees because I was new and ignorant and probably scared the hell out of them at first until they realized I wasn’t LE.  Should you just leave the fee in the envelope on the table and see what happens?  Will she just take the envelope and leave without counting or what?  HELP???? because I never want to hire a #1 or #2 again, just #3.

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It sounds as if your going through an agency.  The 3 is part of the agency fee which gets the provider to your door and after that the haggling begins which can cost you a mint .. and still not get you what you want.  Check out the independent providers in your area and stay away from the agencies if you can .. most will have a website with a list of their fees many will also state that the fee is all inclusive.  You can save yourself a ton of money by sticking with a well reviewed indie provider which will give you great full service. hobby safe hobby well hobby all you can be

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thx a bunch.  some girls on here with great reviews seam to be part of an agency such as executive-girls.  are the fees listed in the reviews the final or should i expect the ole up-sell?

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You have been the victim of upselling, a common rookie mistake that I'm sure we all made at least once. The lady/agency advertises a low hourly rate, but once they arrive on site, require a tip, a very big tip, for any further activity if any is even available. Considered to be completely and totally unacceptable for the well informed seasoned veteran hobbyist. This is more typical (at least in my area and from my experience) of agencies that advertise in yellow pages or local classifieds. What really concerns me about this method, other than the blatant deception, is that it most certainly requires that one or both parties must discuss money in conjunction with specific acts. As you already seem to be well aware of, one should never, ever under any circumstance discuss either.

Appreciator, you are on the right track though. Use TER, do your home work, and you will find most reputable ladies/agencies provide the service you described in your third example with a gift/donation envelope left with no mention of it.
As for the $ amount you read in reviews, three bills would be average for FS (GFE) from a reputable provider. This would be an "all inclusive fee" and/or she does not "expect tips".

hope my rambling made sense and helps, best of luck, mr.man

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mr.man, no rambling; just great advise.  you hit the nail on the head with the first two ...first one from yellow pages in NJ; second from the web though in CA.  I expected more from the CA because i found her through the web, but not through a review site such as TER.  #2 was from an agency.  Actually their was one between #1 & #2 (let's say 1 1/2) from VA but if i told you THAT story, you'd really understand why i forgot that one.

Anyway, thx for the advise.

You should be able to hold it in your hands and at least take a nibble. I usually ask nervous clients once they have arrived, to fondle my breast (up underneath my blouse), grab my tush or plant one on the lips...all le deterrants.  By the way, sorry about the previous episodes. Now go and have some fun!