I get definitions ranging from prolonged massage to manual interuption of ejaculation (ouch!). I see tantric massage and tantra sessions offered on this board and others and maybe I'd like to try it if someone can give a coherent definition.
An overpriced hand job in the presence of candles, insence (sp?) and mood music. You can probably throw in an unshaven bush and maybe armpits into that mix, but, that's only a guess...
An experience that brings you fully alive and present, using every one of your senses, in an exploration of the energies and powers of your own core being.
Above and beyond that, it's a practitioner by practitioner grab-bag of what you will find.
I didn't hear a similarity at all. Though with an attitude like that... no matter how disciplined and talented and insiteful the practitioner is, that's all you'll ever get. A song and a dance.
Noone can DO tantra to you. It's something a good practitioner can only help you to begin to experience. And ONLY if you are open and welcoming of the experience.
I hear you, but I bet these women don't know anymore than a good provider. This mystical secret stuff seems ripe for rip-offs to me, especially for those who charge high rates. I think that it's for gullible minds. But most of these women only charge $200 or so, which is fine for a massage and hand job. It's the philosophy that might come out of their mouths that keeps me away. I just don't want to hear any wierdo stuff as they are performing.
then simply don't go! Stick with the lovely ladies offering what it is you are looking for.
Since you've never seen a Tantrika, consider that your opinions of them are unfounded and unfair.
Yes, there are ladies who throw the word around for it's mystery and excitement alone. There are also ladies who mistakenly believe it can protect them in some fashion (being a spiritual practice). There are ladies who use it only as a euphimism to imply specific sexual acts (usually g-spot and prostate massage). There are some with messiah complexes who are no better than Jimmy... whatever his name. That tele-vangelist.
All that aside, I personally know some marvelous, heart-centered and healing-intention grounded goddesses who deserve every penny of what they earn... and more.
I think I learned something. Are there tricks to telling the real from fake? Reviews don't seem to be the answer, since the guys don't appear to know what tantra is.
There is not a review board that I am aware of for spriritual practitioners and the... ahem... template for most sites does not adequately cover such work.
Your best bet is to begin at http://www.GoddessTemple.com and see who is in your area (even though many are not on that site, it is the only national one I am aware of). From there visit the ladies websites and feel how sincere there text reads. Do they have educational links and good information on themselves and their practice available? Do they have lush lovely sites or simply "Come here big boy" style photos? Look for consistency, honesty, the ability to invoke passion...
I'm sorry, there's no "tricks" I can recommend. Good luck on your search and if you want you are welcome to PM me with your location to see if I have any friends in your neck of the woods!
I am fortunate enough to be in an area where there is an abundance of Tantric sources for study as well as "teachers". Tantra has as many meanings as there are people who practice it but one thing it has given to me is ability to keep in touch with myself and have a good sense of what my sexual partner desires... works both ways if you allow it to and heightens the experience. Link below should help you futher for research.
It is a 500 dollar handjob that sends you back to your SO smelling like a mixed bag of scented creams and scrubs, and incense and myrhh. I think they bought it from the wisemen! Sting and his wife used to brag all the time about this crap and then one day, he admitted it was all a bunch of huey! Its a bunch of women who love pussy, don't like to shave, and dance around totem poles at the magic hour and alot of feminine men who need to contact their feminine sides! Who the hell needs a 3 hour bang session, just to come once, if you want to go that long, wait a bit and get willy up again. If you aren't able to do that, no way in hell you will hold a woody thru a tantric session! If you notice on all their sites, a common message is goddess worship, the definition of that is have another woman lap me up!
While she doesn't advertise this as a service, if time allows, she offers a tantric BJ after round 2!!! She can keep me hard, and bring me to a 3rd climax (full body quiver), long after I am fully spent!!
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