Well, if it is cold cold cold in Buffalo, then yeah, I am guessing most ladies are not going to be willing to walk into your room wearing a whimsical sundress - even if they are wearing a heavy overcoat over it.

That doesn't mean she can't arrive dressed appropriately for the weather, and carry a pretty little dress with her that she can change into once she arrives.

OK, seriously... it must be like 10 below zero in Buffalo right now.

Sundress?

Let's try not to attract attention...

How about your provider shows up in a parka, hat, scarf, gloves, and snow boots?

Give her something hot to drink... chat a little... turn up the thermostat in your room, and then get naked, hot & sweaty.

Sundress?  Are you suffering from hypothermia??? or just temporary insanity?

You don't want to ask a lady to wear something that will attract unwanted attention.  A sundress in Buffalo in early March would not blend in.

To not wear panties is not an unusual request. About the same as please wear panties. No big deal.  I would like to point out that some touring ladies living out of a suit case are limited to that one bag of freakiness. You're request may not be in that suitcase and not all of us can easily buy from the rack.  I am slim but extremely busty and have a heck of a time finding cute little dresses that I don't have to have altered.  I could buy in XXL just to fit the girls and I could wear a shower curtain and look about as good