as you may have read in my last post i'm thinking about giving this a try. what should i look for  when looking for my first lady to have a gfe with?

is there anything you would have sought out for your first time looking back?

on anther note i work in law enforcement but am not a cop (corrections). how hard will this make the contact process. how should i approach the situation? i don't whant to scare the two ladies i'm thinking about off.

Start by spending the money on becoming a VIP member.  Do a search for the things that interest you.  For a first timer, stick with someone with more than 10 reviews.  Check to see the number of reviews that each reviewer has, and make certain that most have at least a handful.  Read the worst one first, and then look to see if anything bad is repeated in any of the better ones.  Using that method, come up with a decent working list of potential ladies.  Pick a date/time, and contact the ladies, one at a time.  Give each a chance to respond before contacting more.

Give the ladies the info that they request for screening.  Don't lie about what you do, but don't jump out and offer it either.

Start out with reputable providers and do your homework; read the reviews, check out the provider's website and choose the one that appeals to you the most?