Newbie - FAQ

What to expect for first time?
svfd744 1818 reads
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Ok so ive been communicating with a provider today and i have decided to meet with her probably tommorrow. shes coming to my hotel which im going to tell her which hotel it is when i get to it tommorrow. but im mainly just wondering what should i expect or how should i go about the business part. i searched her number but she has no revoews but she sent me pictures of herself and shes the same as in her ad

When i invite her into my room should i just like sit down and let her begin or what. also do i leave her fee in an unmarkes envelope by the phone? also im only 21 years old will she be kinda caught off guard or hesistant because im so young. ive been turned down by a few providers because of my age. i just need some tips and some advice for someone who is meeting an escort for the first time.

No reviews, she doesn't know your age? What have you been communicating about? Did she screen you? Sounds a bit risky. If she is legit, she will take charge as soon as she realizes you are young and a newbie.

Leave the donation in an envelope somewhere in plain sight.  Good luck!

you should reconsider the date.

Even if she sent you a pic, it could be a rob or some major upsell.
Just stick with well-reviewed ladies..

Your first time should be special and a well-informed decision.

Well what can I say I'm trying to do something soon too, and have been searching for companionship also.  I too used to think that if a chick would tell me it's then nothing could go bad right?  Well your chances are 50/50 if you go by it that way.  Since she has no reviews who knows it might all go smooth, or worst case scenario everything could turn out off for the worst.

Your first time should be with a provider who has a history of reviews, you should be asked some questions for her safety and well being, and your age may or may not be an issue, but most guys mention it before the meet. Without reviews, you don't know if she is cop or if her pimp will be there to rob you. At the very least, you should get the approval of another hobbyist that has seen her, who is established. That's a bit hard when she has no reviews, but you could post an "ISO" on the Regional Board for your area, and see if anyone has seen her.

bluepillman379 reads

You're too young, too inexperienced to be seeing ladies without lots of reviews. That's what TER is here for. Bail on this girl, with notice of course, and begin the learning process. She could be a cop or setting you up. Without the reviews we just have no idea. Be smart here. Save ur self some agg and cancel.

at the very least, do a Google search on her photo (or Tin Eye) and make sure the photo isn't stolen from somewhere.

If it is stolen, you could be walking right into an LE trap.

only see well reviewed ladies with multiple reviews from established reviewers.

Otherwise, don't bit*h if you get taken for a ride.

Dude . . . bro . . . you should read London Rayne's advice thoroughly and repeatedly and give serious thought to cancelling.

Then do your homework here on the newbie forum so that the next time around you are more prepared.  

As a famous dude once said to some other hepcat: "Discretion is the better part of valour."

Good luck in all your future endeavors !

AH007

I would say run very fast while you can, not to scare you but many many things can go wrong when you don't do your homework. It may be worth it for you at this point to get the VIP membership or post a message on your local board indicating that you are new and your age, looking to spend time with a companion, I am newbie friendly and I see younger clients;  I am sure there are some ladies in your area willing to see you, provided that you are a nice, serious and verifiable.
Taking one for the time once in a while may be ok for more experienced gentlemen but it's just the worst idea ever for you at this point :)
Once you have a few choices of well reviewed ladies that meet your preferences, then you can concentrate on what happens during the session.
Safety first!

No reviews, big red flag numero UNO!!!!!  Very few seasoned hobbyists will see someone with no reviews, and a newbie such as yourself should not either.  If she doesn't know your age yet, you should tell her, as many providers will not see someone as young as you.  She could easily show up, see how young you are and turn around and beat feet, and now you have a hotel room already paid for and no one to share it with.

You say you searched her number, but didn't tell what you found.  Well????  As mentioned, just because she sent you the same pic in her ad, it doesn't mean it's a legit pic.  Did you check her pics in her ad?

It's called research, and it doesn't appear you have done much.  Read the self help center, get VIP, and look up some providers that have a good amount of reviews by established reviewers.

Again, I echo previous advice, do not see this lady.  Too many things could go terribly wrong.

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