Hello everyone, i've been on TER For almost 2 months now and of course I'am still a newbie, but i've done a little bit of spotting on backpage for providers and now trying to move up on more upscale providers. I found couple of really gorgeous providers and i was reading through the whole ad and noticed that few of them said "Gentlemen Only". Now i'am only 21 years old and don't quite understand what that means in Providers term. Can someone clarify for me because i'am a well mannered individual but i keep thinking they mean older men.

If they have age restrictions, usually they will clearly state that on their website.

Plus some guys in their 50's are not necessarily gentleman.

I work for the family business.  I just don't have many bills, which leaves me extra money to play with.  

I only see well reviewed providers.

That's not in itself an age limit. Anyone that has a true age limit will explicitly state this. I've said a few times that, based on what I see in ads/websites, the frequency with which age limits are stated has actually gone down (I attribute it to the economy).

Remember, "Gentlemen only" could also be a sly way to say "no couples" or "no women". You'll often see things like "I prefer a mature, well-educated, generous, gentleman" and the sentence peppered with things that are catered to the older crowd. This is mostly marketing, and maybe the lady does have a *preference* for a certain type. However, a preference is not a requirement. A requirement would be explicitly stated.

The fear providers have about us under-30 types is: a) flakes b) disrespectful c) aggressive d) irresponsible e) immature. Put your best foot forward, and realize women do this to support themselves. Don't be a problem and most should not have a problem with seeing you.

What it really means if they'd prefer older guys - over 35 usually but that would also be stated. The hidden meaning is if you're young you'd better be respectful. It's the provider's way of saying they're not into foul language, guys who negotiate rates (ie: beg for a discount) or guys who like to play rough.

Usually if you reply to one of these "gentleman only" ads an you come across as uneducated or simple a jerk you're not gonna get the appointment.

You guys are 22/21 and I am 23! I am still waiting for my masters to be completed after undergrad. By then I would be around 26. Do you hire high end and how could you? I mean are you professionals(nurse, engineer etc)

I'm always flattered by men who make dates 1-2 months in advance. They're saving and planning!

As a provider, I go out of my way to please these young bucks! (get it? "young bucks", LOL. I crack myself up!)  I have one friend who makes $9 an hour at a candy store in a mall. He attends a local community college. He pays my full rate EVERY three months. In the between time, I occasionally invite him over on the nights when I'm bored or when I want a sweet PC date. Moreover, he has reviews dating YEARS back!

Use your age to your advantage! Play off your strengths! Your competition is older men with more money and skills. (Trust me, middle aged men GREATLY beat out young guys in terms of skills and sensuality!) But there's nothing like youth! I can sponsor our outings to a comedy show and/or a dance club. You don't have a SO, or kids that I need to respect. Plus you have more time on your hands. I can call you to come lick my clit at 2am or 6pm. LOL. You're free!