While I was on a trip a few months back, I ended up staying alone in a very fine hotel and decided to look up some entertainment in the yellow pages. I chose one randomly gave a call and they asked what type of girl I would like and I asked for a brunette.
Anyway, long story short, she came over, and asked me for 200 for her agency and some extra money for her to "entertain me" and the more I paid the "wilder" it would get. I gave her 130 and clearly she was dissapointed. All I got was her playing with herself on the coffee table while I satisfied myself.
In retrospect there were a few things I did incorrectly. I gave her money from my hand, which I now know to do in an envelope. But I had no idea what to say since it was my very first time doing that sort of thing. In the end I felt ripped off, but I wasn't sure if that was supposed to be the normal rate. 330 is awfully alot for myself to do what I could do for 13 bucks ordering a video from the hotel room.
I am new to the hobby if you can even call it that. now that I am back in the LA area, I'm not even sure where to start since I don't have any references and I'm not only afraid of LE but I don't want to get ripped off again. I've been combing up and down the boards but it seems like there's a complex dance I have to play in which there aren't even any guarantees in what I expect.
I'm currently a student and I heard emailing from a .edu is a legitimate method.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Well, first of all, you were quite lucky in just spending allot on a self-administered HJ. It could have been much, much worse. The standard recommendation for starting out, and I highly subscribe to it is: get a VIP membership, search for ladies you're interested in. And, from those, read the reviews of those who have a good history of reviews, by reviewers, who themselves have a good history of reviewing. Then look at the ladies' websites to determine their expectations in setting up a date. If you have no references, sometimes an agency is a more helpful place to start, though LE is much more likely to hit an agency than a lady who is an independent. With a good agency the likelihood is not all that great.
I don't understand your point about "emailing from a .edu is legitimate method." I've had one, and I would not want someone from the schools computer services department going though me emails.
Mattradd is right on. You really take a chance with non reputable sites that offer what you were looking for. Study Study Study. I have been on the boards for some time and have had only a couple of encounters with well reviewed and well advertised ladies. I have also lined up some other providers for the future by getting cleared thru their required system. All this takes time. Consider what you spent as an investment in your new hobby.