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What she doesn't know in this instance won't hurt her...
Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 1602 reads
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Just forget your first time jitters, chalk it up to experience, and enjoy.  This is something I wouldn't mention unless you become a regular for her, and it may be an item for laughs down the road.  If so, you'll know when...

I did a message on here about 2 weeks ago and got told off. I needed that. I was terrified to talk to the lady I wanted to spend some time with and actually hung up on her a few times.

I finally grew a pair and we set up a date. She is very nice, we had a great time.

My question is should I tell her it was me calling and hanging up? I know she was annoyed, but she does not know it was me.

NO!  Why ruin a good thing?

Swim

Nope, at least maybe until you get to know her better. Then you can just laugh it off.

Sometimes to much info is not good.

shudaknownbetter1640 reads

forget about your guilt trip.  You've moved beyond it & so has she.
Enjoy.
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Timbow1661 reads

No do not tell her and she only cares about your money so do not feel so gulity :)

you Timbow are an idiot...she's a person just like anyone else. Most have great regulars whom they do care about. Many of my "friends" are exactly that... friends. Just because you have not formed any bonds with any of the Ladies here don't doubt for a moment others haven't. Maybe the problem is YOU and in YOUR experience they are happy to see you go and YOUR money is all they care about. If thats all YOU bring into the experience thats all it will be. It's a 50/50 give and take. YOU seem to only come in with the minimal so thats what you get back.

Now about the hang up calls...I don't think you need to call and "confess" lol but if you see her again, Guessing that she and you had a good connection, if you want to tell her she will probably think it was cute and see it was just a shy guy needing some confidence. No worries. otherwise don't worry just move on. You are not the first to do that or the last. Many hang up calls in this biz.

I like to make real friends and connections with my guys if at all possible

Just forget your first time jitters, chalk it up to experience, and enjoy.  This is something I wouldn't mention unless you become a regular for her, and it may be an item for laughs down the road.  If so, you'll know when...

Exactly.....IT NEVER HAPPENED.  It'll be our little secret.  All 4,397 users online.

checlov201224 reads

Let it go. She and you are better off if you do not bring up your lapse of common sense. Don't do what you did to any other lady, they have enough to deal with.

Before I read anyone else response I will say if you two get along tell her.

I have had guys admire me for years via my blog before they got up the gumption to call me. Who knows if they called and hung up.

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