I am new to hobbying, but really thought that a girlfriend experience meant it was more of an attitude thing than a particular act. Some use it to mean that they are FS, while some say it means they like to kiss and cuddle. I saw one provider who claimed GFE and she was as business like as it gets. Some say it means BBBJ. How do I know?

YOu pretty much answered your own question - it is more about attitude that any particular act.  You are more likely to get true GFE from high-class lower volume Lady than from someone who does not advertise 1/2h rates on CL.

In my personal opinion, true GFE companion should be able to create felling of intimate relaxed encounter where you feel as if you two (or three) have known each other a lot longer than hour /night and leave you satisfied mentally as well as physically.

XoXo

Lina

we are companions and hug and cuddle and all that good stuff -

Many girls advertise as GFE
read the reviews -
you will find a good one -

If you read the reviews- and reviews stated she did all this - dont know what to tell ya =

Many girls advertise and havent a clue how to -
Hell, ive even seen 20 something year olds advertising as Milfs- give me a break- LOL

Perhaps she was having an off day  -
Perhaps she used the term loosely -
Perhaps your chemistries just didnt mix -
She couldve thought you were a cop of some sort and just acted very shy..
Couldve been a new girl-
Many factors-

GFE does NOT mean someone who gives a blow job LOL
God love ya though

( girlfriends / wives , most often, in real life dont give blowjobs  , its why you come see escorts   LOL

Glorious Followme Extravaganza.

Thank you
XLIII = 4

Yeah, I see too many on Eros guide listed under mature ladies and they're 23 or 22 years old.  That list is for ladies at least in the upper 30s (say, 37 or older), not for ladies who want to play with older men.  I personally prefer not play with ladies in the older age category, mainly because the conversation is easier on the ears (less grating with the "you knows" and such).

And, as Ben Franklin, once said, the older ladies are much more fun than the younger ones.

Can't speak for everyone but this week was a good example.

Met a lady I've seen many times. She has a second job and had worked 3rd and I had a busy day. Met at lunch. I told her I need us to stip down, climb in the bed and just hold each other for about 15 min. to let the world quit spinning for a bit. She loved this idea and we kissed, cuddled, rubbed and small talked about stuff. So basically what you might do with a G.F. The best part is that unlike a long time G.F. we then proceeded to have some wonderful sex with everything practically on the table (within saftey range). Afterwards, she was in no hurry for me to leave and although I only booked 1 hour we were there almost 2. When I climbed out of bed and got dressed she got up, gave me the most wonderful long passionate kiss and told me I was such a nice guy. (I really think she meant that too!).

She texted me and emailed me later in the day to tell me how much she enjoyed our cuddles.

Now that is GFE to me!!

The term has changed over the years---->

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Read her reviews, not just the last two or three, but go back a few, and see what the other guys have written. Also, take the time to read the "about me" page on her website. This will also tell you a lot.

I have been with ladies who made me feel like a king while having dinner, walking through the park, sitting on a park bench, and just talking and listening. If I find myself thinking about this lady a week later, then she is GFE to me. Yes, the sex is important, but you can get sex in an hour long appointment or session. I prefer to have "dates", rather than "sessions".

Yes, my friend, GFE is a lot more than any particular act, or combination of acts. You're absolutely right, it's all about attitude, and how you feel not only while you are with her, but after she leaves.

It really means nothing. You give great advice, gotta read the reviews to find what you want to know.

That is exactly what I am talking about. I am 40, take good care of myself and have a very interesting job. I have been told that I am not bad looking and when I go to the Dominican Republic for work the girls line up to screw an American. They love to cuddle and kiss and I love that. I just would like to find an ASP here in the states that I would be willing to pay to get what I get for free down here.

As stated, it is fairly simple to do, just read the reviews. Of course, from what you say if I were you I would be planning more trips to the Dominican. Where do you find those girls to just line up? I must stay at the wrong places LOL!

Especially if you find yourself an atf. She will be the epitome of a gfe

You really don't know until that certain lady brings you there.

There are various definitions depending on who you are discussing this with.  Most guys consider the lady to be GFE if she is like a girlfriend; meaning there is more to the date that a quickie.  Tender touches, cuddling, and gentle stroking before, during and between rounds.

A "how fast can I get him off & out the door" lady does not qualify.

This is by far the BEST explaination i've seen!
Right the FUck On!!!
Jay

While these statements (HH's above) may be true, they do not seem to be very helpful to a true newbie. To say it is the best explanation one has seen is certainly an opinion, but also not one that is helpful for a newbie who is trying to find his way in the hobby.

thebrutusguy will be much better off reading many of the other posts that actually attempt to give some kind of explanation as to what the term could mean, as well as directing him to additional helpful resources (reviews, newbie manual, etc.).

I suggest that brutus, or any other newbie, determine what exactly you are looking for and learn the art of the search on TER. Then read the reviews, as many others have said. While your connection with the provider will go a long way in determining your ultimate experience, you will be much more likely to get the version of gfe that you are looking for without just crossing your fingers and hoping you will know it when you experience it.

JMTC
K

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