I am quite new and have had 8 dates so far.  All of them have been outcalls and either 2 or 3 hours.  In all of these dates, I have finished on time, although once or twice I came in just under the wire.  In 7 of these situations, I have had the following situation happen.  The lady comes back, lays down and we start talking.  The date ends up going long by 45 to 75 minutes.  Neither of us look at the clock, until she does, and says something like "wow - I need to get going".  She gets dressed and leaves, and in seemingly good spirits.   I have been white listed by some of these.

On an outcall, if she wants to just hang out and shoot the breeze with you after "playtime"- I don't think you owe her anything. If all you are doing is just chatting at that point she is OTC. She's your "guest" at "your place" in my book it is rude to ask a guest to leave.

Of course if I am staying over 45-75 min. I am definitely compensating her. To this date, I have never stayed over a minute of my allotted time when it was an incall situation in 10 + yrs of doing this. I get very antsy if there are 5 min left and I am not dressed yet.  

In call or out call it's on her to either get you out on time or get herself out.  Every lady has a different approach to how they work.  I happen to be seeing a couple of UTR's right now who only book a few times a week and never more than one guy in a day.  With my long-time ATF it's not unheard of for a two hour appointment to last for five or six hours-this includes chat time and dinner.  With another reg an hour usually goes on for two.  Now, this is not something that should be mentioned in reviews and most certainly not something that should ever be taken for granted. You are ultimately paying for their time and if they decide to be generous with you it means that they feel comfortable with you and have no pressing engagement. Enjoy the human interaction for what it is-fun!

Conversely, if I had booked an hour with a lady and ASKED to extend I would most certainly expect to pay for the additional time.

since you used an alias, I don't know if you've written reviews about your otc time with these providers. While you were specific here with the amount of time, I hope if you wrote reviews that you were vague and simply said something like "unrushed" and didn't mention the specific amount of time.  Remember, anything you share with the provider that isn't mentioned on her web site or ad (like extra time, greek, etc) really is between you and the provider.   I'm amazed at how many  reviewers, even veteran reviewers,  mentioned they received an extra hour, or more otc.  This creates a certain expectation with future hobbyists and really is a pain in the ass for the escort.

 I am quite new and have had 8 dates so far.  All of them have been outcalls and either 2 or 3 hours.  In all of these dates, I have finished on time, although once or twice I came in just under the wire.  In 7 of these situations, I have had the following situation happen.  The lady comes back, lays down and we start talking.  The date ends up going long by 45 to 75 minutes.  Neither of us look at the clock, until she does, and says something like "wow - I need to get going".  She gets dressed and leaves, and in seemingly good spirits.   I have been white listed by some of these.   Is there an expectation in this world of volunteering extra compensation when this happens?  I never have.  If there was, I would be the one mentioning the time.  I don't think I am pressuring them to stay at all, and I think it would come across as rude if I was the one telling them the time was up.  Especially when we are in the middle of pretty interesting conversations, after for me at least, amazing sex.  I book my appointments with time at the end, so I am never under any form of pressure to end just on time.  I am not complaining here.  It is pretty damn nice to have an amazing naked woman beside you chit chatting.  I don't want to be taking advantage of their generosity either though.

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relationship may not apply to one off cases... Yours is the former type. If its the latter type, then in case of incall its the guy's responsibility to leave on time. In case of outcall its the lady's  

I have written reviews and have said nothing about the extra time at all.  I agree that doing so is bad form.

It is sweet of you to ask. I'm sure the ladies you see appreciate the extended dates, it is so much more relaxed for both of you. Going over time is going to vary in every experience but your guest was obviously enjoying your company. We all click with some people more than others and its clear there was a nice comfort level between you. It is up to her to check the time and start her preparation to leave.  

if you don't leave her location, another story.

You're really contracting with an independent service provider - no different than if you had contracted with a language instructor.  If you were having a good interaction and they decided to stay and just chat (not language lessons, just chatting), you wouldn't feel obligated to compensate them for the extra time, would you?