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what is etiquette re telling i am a reviewer?
saintbees 84 Reviews 3748 reads
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do providers and/or agencies prefer if i tell them i am a reviewer or prefer i not tell them?


I would rather not involved with.

I just want her to do her thing.

I don't want her to be thinking about having to over do it for a review, or to thinking I am looking for a discount, etc.

Ladies have PM me later to thank me for a review.

Some have really liked what I wrote about them. Of course I don't see anything wrong with that.

There are positives and negatives to revealing your reviewer name to a provider.

On the positive side, when a gent tells me his TER name in advance, I do my homework by reading his reviews. That gives me a pretty good idea of what he likes, and what his idea of a great time is. That gives me insight into how to make sure he has the best time possible.

On the negative side, I have on a few ocassions (twice in fact) declined to see a gentleman because after reading his reviews, I was fairly certain that we were not going to click.

Also on the negative side, if you see a lady and the experience was merely so-so for you, now you run the risk of her retaliating against you if you write an honest review of the experience and give her a mediocre or poor review.

I like to give my TER handle and link to my reviews when I request an appointment.  This way she will know what to expect and what I like.  Lately I have given more information about myself in my reviews since providers read them also.  We have the advantage of reading their reviews and web sites to anticipate our experience.  Our reviews give them the chance to do the same.  God I hope a provider doesn't retaliate against me for a not so good review.  I have been avoiding getting myself in those situations but sometimes I like to TOFTT.

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