Just became a VIP, and am familiarizing myself with the new info available about providers. On thing I can't find a definition for is "Massage: YES - Privates to Privates". Doesn't seem to be in either of the Definitions pages, and a quick Google search yielded no results.  

the man rubs his penis against the lady's labia without protection.

Though not as dangerous as penetrating, there is a strong chance for fluids to pass from one to the other with accompanying diseases.

It can be made safer if the man avoids the labia and rubs just to the side or above the labia, preferably with the assistance of some lubricant.

No reason to apologize.  This is an excellent question.

Thanks! If any admins are out there, this would be good info to add to the definitions pages.

In my experience, this is a very misunderstood or misrreported menu item.

Seeing that on someone's profile is meaningless to me because it is such a misunderstood and misreported menu item.