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and then resume with less pressure / speed and tease her to the edge again. And repeat. And Repeat. Til she can't take it anymore, holds me tight to her and explodes. I've created some real gushers this way. And I don't care if it takes an hour to accomplish. I usually book long dates... '
Just thought I'd post this as a service to the noob community. The list is not exhaustive and is based only on my experience. Ladies feel free to add your "tells" if you wish....
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The signs I love to see / feel etc:
flushing of the lower face and neck and sometimes chest
breathing becomes shallower as lower belly muscles tense up, sometimes faster, sometimes she holds her breath right when on the edge as well
thigh muscles tense up and / or quiver, sometimes you can feel her bottom muschles contract and lift her a bit; other times she clamps down with her thighs
vaginal muscles contract either spasmically or in one hard contraction, sometimes squeezing me right out, sometimes clamping down hard on me. I've had to check for damage a few times..... many times I've been ejected so hard it was uncomfortable
and - with many ladies, their clit becomes so prominent and sensitive that they pull away after orgasm and are too sensitive to play for a few minutes or longer. or she may reach her hand down between her clit and the source of stimulation
Those are biological signs I'm in a position to see. Others include curling of the toes, and flexing of the fingers either overextended or in a fist.
Other signs I've experienced:
being "hugged" really hard with her arms, pulled into her. Even having finger nails dug into my back
increasing low moans building up to a shout / scream when cumming
squirting during or becoming very very wet just before.... or both
closing her eyes really tight, sometimes turning her face away to the side (so she can pretend someone else is fucking her I guess ' )
Yes, these are a few of my favorite things.....
"oh god oh god i'm cumming i'm cumming"
and
"don't you want to come with me sweetie oh oh oh"
Uh.... probably not... '
Just go to one of my hotel rooms to see what happens ....
there is an indentation of them in a wall somewhere 
and then resume with less pressure / speed and tease her to the edge again. And repeat. And Repeat. Til she can't take it anymore, holds me tight to her and explodes. I've created some real gushers this way. And I don't care if it takes an hour to accomplish. I usually book long dates... '
Prior to meeting this woman, I had used your back-off-from-the-edge-of-the-precipice technique with a few women. They all seemed to appreciate the end result.
Then I started dating this one woman. She was thrilled with the DATY from the beginning. Claimed it was the first time she had cum that way. After a few weeks, I figured I'd try the 'build up and hold off' routine. That did NOT go over well! Basically, her response was, "What the HELL are you doing!?!"
Even though she later admitted that her subsequent orgasm was very intense, she still didn't want me to ever do that again. Being a guy, I of course couldn't leave it at that. After a few more weeks, I tried it again. She basically became borderline violent.
When we later talked about it, she stated that she had to concentrate so much to get there, that she just wanted to tip over the edge. She didn't want to have to make like Sisyphus and push the boulder back up the slope. Even if the end result was extremely satisfying.
We later broke up. Her because of my obstinance. Me because I thought she was basically lazy.