I am NEVER free but i am often available

Works like a charm

Lina

I have e-mail as my main source of contact for potential clients. It is listed on my webpage RIGHT BELOW a bold heading that reads "Please ask to meet me 24hrs in advance." Yet still I get at least 3guys a week wanting to meet right now....I have a life guys! I do not sit in my apartment all day waiting for a guy to ring my phone and come over.I'm not a booty call(that's what ex-gf are for...I am a GFE escort.)If I have no clients that day I'll go out shopping,go hang with my family or run errands. I have a real job which I go into on days I'm not seeing anyone. J
So I HATE it when guys e-mail me with a date-mark 3:04pm and they want to meet at 5:00pm. I mean it takes me just an hour to get ready! I'm always freshly showered and shaved just as I expect the guy to be!(do unto others as you would have them do unto you)Not to mention I have to screen first-time clients and that takes more than just a couple hours for past providers to usually get back to me.

If the tables were turned and I(an escort) was only available last minute for meeting with guys and emailed them 4hrs in advance you think I'd get much business...no!

Sorry for the whinny rant but this just irks me to no end! I mean it clearly states on my website and in all my advertisement posts that I can only meet 24hrs in advance. I hate turning down business but I even have a 'generated response' that I copy and past into e-mails asking me to meet without a 24hr notice. And the kicker is even after I tell this guy my 24hr rule, he will e-mail again in a couple days wanting to meet later that afternoon. I mean is asking for 24hr advance notice too much!?

How do you other ladies handle this?

they think they can slide in (no pun intended) for a quickie and possibly beat your screening process by wanting to see you "now".  Stay safe and do not compromise your screening, despite how nice a guy appears to be.

Barbie,

Most guys come from the "it can't hurt to ask" school of though.  I don't believe any malace is intended nor do I think guys are singling you out because they think you will be available as opposed to someone else.  

You have to think of it from the guys perspective.  Availability and scheduling isn't always easy.  Most times I plan a date well in advance based on travel schedule or work schedule but there are times when my availability suddenly changes (or a provider cancels) and I'm looking for something quick.  I might check with 3 or 4 providers at a time to see if anyone is available on short notice.

Handling it is very easy "Sorry, I'm not available".  the guy will normally respond back "thanks".

I agree with the comment above, no disrespect intended on the guys part. I've actually never scheduled a local appointment further out than a couple of hours, not because I'm disrespectfull of anyone but because I don't know what is going to be going on next Wednesday at 7pm. I could have work responsibilities, home issues or simply just not really be in the mood on that day at that time. If I know I'll be travelling to another city on business, I will start searching a week or two ahead of time as I don't want to be scrambling around last minute in an unfamiliar area. Take it as guys will be guys, after seeking you out, they just can't wait to meet you!

I myself have taken a shot in the dark when my original plans fell through and have set up several meetings with "24 hour notice" girls who did happen to be available on a few hours notice.  Quite often it is because their scheduled appointment canceled at the last minute.  While I certainly wouldn't blow up a lady's email or phone with my request I happen to think that offering to support a ladies income is worth the risk of sending off a harmless email.  

If no means no for you that is perfectly fine but enough other ladies are willing to bend when it suites their convenience and their pocketbooks that I'm afraid you are always going to find guys who will try.  Just ignore them.

If a gentleman contacts me and asks if you  are  available now or  in a couple of hours I always let them know my requirements for an appointment.I do require 24hr notice as well,but sometimes if the gentleman has provided necesssary info and I can get in contact with refs I can make it happen in a few hrs.That doesn't always happen also verification sites make it easier if the gentleman has that info,but still sometimes I cannot verify in that short time that is being requested.Majority of the gentleman contact me with are you available now?Do not have any refs or when I inquire if he has any there is no response.

That is typically what I encounter as well....which is why it annoys me to no end!

If the approach is polite and organized? As noted above, I understand that asking for last minute availability with someone is a bit rude, so I only do it when I suddenly find myself with unexpected time and availability on my hands, which is rare, but it has happened a few times in recent months.

Ideally, I then reach out to someone I have corresponded with a little bit, but that is not the case if I am out of town. So I make the call, apologize for the fire drill, and see if we can make something happen. I have all my references available, as well as specific times and am prepared to be flexible on location. I understand that I may pay a little extra, and that I better be extra nice, because the lovely person is jumping through hoops for me. And if the answer is no, I say thank you, sorry again, and I hope we can meet another time.

If approached that way, does it make it acceptable?

I also understand that there are ladies who have last minute availability, and may welcome that call, but I cannot quite figure out who they are. And your point, Barbie, about taking the time to get ready and be properly presented does make me wonder a little about those ladies who are ready to go on the spur of the moment. So, perhaps, my sense of urgency when I find myself all dressed up, and all worked up, with nowhere to go, is not at all in my best interest. Big head, tell the little head to heel, boy, heel!

Zig