I have been there too. I would recommend joining a verification service, datecheck, P411 or rs2k. You will have to give them some personal info so they can discretly verify you are who you say you are then check out some of the newbie friendly providers on those sites. Come to TER to check their reviews and have fun. I joined P411 and have met nothing but great ladies since. Remember you my still have to give her a little more info but you will be well on your way. Good luck!
But I'm a new member. I'm really getting tired of the BP girls with the fake pictures and having to worry about if they are trying to rob me. A BP provider who wanted to verify me some way told me to get on this site, now I'm having a hard time getting anybody to see me. LOL!
What's a horny guy to do?
I have been there too. I would recommend joining a verification service, datecheck, P411 or rs2k. You will have to give them some personal info so they can discretly verify you are who you say you are then check out some of the newbie friendly providers on those sites. Come to TER to check their reviews and have fun. I joined P411 and have met nothing but great ladies since. Remember you my still have to give her a little more info but you will be well on your way. Good luck!
I agree with this advice 100%. It's exactly what I did, and I've seen terrific ladies as a result.
I've tried to join a verification service, but because I'm self-employed it's a catch-22. I need to get a reference from a provider who's a member of the service, but I can't see a provider till I'm verified. I need another strategy. Any suggestions?
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If you are in DC, I have a "go to girl" for guys in your spot, have probably sent twenty guys to her. Slightly lighter-than-usual screening, but more importantly if you drop my TER handle to her you will be OK as long as you can pass the light screening, no more questions.
She is exceptional in terms of being a reference, is very well reviewed and regarded in the community, and it opens a lot of doors for guys. She just happened to be that girl for me when I was starting out, she was new at that time too, and I ended up mentoring her a lot on etiquette which helped her hit the next level. As she hit that next level, so did the weight of her being a reference. We grew together in the hobby? Something like that. She was my first ATF. and you could very accurately call us close friends.
And no to you hoons....I am not a damn pimp! Holy hell no....she has tried to offer me time off the clock in appreciation for referring guys over, and I will never, ever, ever open the door to that shit.
Her? Latina, 5'9", elite athlete, nicest curves I have ever seen, best BBBJ of my life 30+ providers in, loves to....make love, and learned to be an extremely intimate lover (I am taking credit for that one). There are worse ways to get your 1st real reference....PM me if you hobby on the area and I will hook you up.
She sounds like a hottie. My type of gal, but I'm in the Perryville area in MD. I really don't feel like traveling to DC. Know anyone else who may want to take a chance with me?
....but I would suggest th etrip to Tysons would be worth it for a beautiful lady who is an intimate lover and a great reference? If not will pass your her info and maybe she will travel for you under the right terms.
See my review of Lena, who now goes by "Catelina" (this changed last week when she left an agency, she is working on it). She went independent - agency and things went to hell for her - back to independent.
I'll reach out to her. Hopefully we'll be able to arrange something.
.....first and foremost, her screening isn't going to change.
Secondly - my vibe. Subjective of course, but I have yet to get one wrong. Its gotten me thrown out of a few casinos for suspected deck counting.....but never a problem in this scenario.
But it is food for thought, you are correct...
1. Join P411 (Preferred411) or Date Check. These are verification services that will screen you. Many providers are members of these and will see you if you are a member without any further screening. Some will still want extra information about you because you are a newbie as far as they are concerned. On P411 some providers have designated themselves as "Newbie Friendly" so seeing them is a good place to start. Then these ladies can be references for you when attempting to see others.
2. Read the "Self-Help Center". The link to that is located at the upper right of the discussion boards under the red and white life preserver. Click the link. It will take you to many links with info about TER and how to use it. It also has info on the hobby and how to best go about it.
3. Use the search function on this board to search for discussions on P411 etc as well as anything else you may have a question about.
4. Check out the ads for providers in your area by going to the Regional Ad Board for your city or cities closest to you. Check out their ad or web site and see if they accept P411 etc. as many do. Follow their instructions for contact.
5. Purchase the VIP membership here so you can have full access to the profiles and reviews of the providers you want to see. See only providers with many reviews and check to see that her reviewers have written many reviews. The VIP membership will give you access to the "Juicy Details" (TER's term for the actual events that took place during the session) of the review so you can be sure the provider offers what you are looking for.
Hope this helps. Good Luck. Have Fun.
If he's only referred to see providers who have "many reviews" then how does someone like myself (with no reviews) will ever get established. If I refer my clients from BP to TER who have no reviews and will be signing up with TER to give me a review (due to the discount I will possibly be offering them) now they too will need more than one review before someone will see them?
I really feel that Newbie providers and hobbyist need to be given a chance if given one or no reviews. Damn, it sounds like you will never get a chance the TER world.
Very disappointing!
I saw my first new-to-me provider in three months last week Jordan, and it was a young lady I met right here on the Newbie Board the previous week. Keep you rname out there, post comments on your local board, a high percentage of guys who click on your comment will then click through to your profile if it is linked to "take a look at the package". I was absolutely blessed to find Alicia here, it went from flirtation on Newbie Board to:
I'm sure it will work out some how.
It is. Guess we're in the same boat. Maybe we can help one another out. Where are you located? I'm in Maryland. Perryville. Got any pics to email me?
...to see well reviewed providers to lessen the chance of being ripped off, arrested, disappointed, etc. Not because newbie providers are more likely to do those things but because when there is no history to show she is legit you are taking a chance. Newbie hobbyists should take less chances.
Veterans can and do see newbie providers and their reviews will give her credibility.
It is a catch 22 in that you need experience to be seen and you need to be seen to get experience. You Jordan, have started off well by coming here to ask questions and establishing a presence on TER with questions and posting. You show you want to know how to go about things and do them in an honest and above board manner. This will get the attention of guys looking to TOFTT (take one for the team ie. see a new provider)
Newbie hobbyists have to build credibility too. It's tough getting references. P411 and the other verification services are a big help with that. TER is a big help for both providers and hobbyists. You can get a feel for one another on the discussion boards and communicate using the TER PM system. It works and soon you will be one of the well reviewed providers that newbies are encouraged to see.
Hang in the and keep doing what you're doing.
Thanks for the encouragement, because I have to be honest and say I feel like giving up. This is A LOT of work.
Join a verification like p411 or Date-check and get VIP TER.
Jordan keep posting weekly Local ads on TER. Also, be active on your local board postings so you get name recognition by the members that do reviews. Date-check also lets ladies post on their message board, I don't know if that is also case with p411.
Good luck to you both
but for providers to get signed up with the P411 or DateCheck, you HAVE to have TER reviews or reviews from other reputable sites. I'm not sure if it's the same policy for hobbyist. Any how, thanks for the advice.
I'm not on p411 so don't about them. I just looked at FAQ on datecheck and it seems that
An entertainer can verify another entertainer for a trial membership. In fact I often see ladie's
Profiles showing they were verified by another provider and a lot of newer providers have not met
Any members yet. Also I do see some profiles where provider has no reviews or even states
That they do not use any boards at all? So maybe a lady you know can verify you? I don't know.
For me, a lady submitted my name to datecheck a few months ago and I got 3 month free trial
Get 2 referrals, with a lady sending you an invite to P411, and you get 6 months there.
Only if the lady has MET the other lady in person can this be done on DC.
Don't feel bad Jordan they rejected mine too boooo lol. But it's kind of a catch 22 with this. We just have to be patient with our reviews