a provider  says you have her for a full hour and then tells you after the first pop any more will cost extra? I mean you already had the first pop. Do you walk out? Do you pay half? I felt bad for a couple and still gave them the full hour. Hell i don't need a silly massage for the next 20-30 minutes.

-- Modified on 3/23/2008 6:43:08 PM

pop per hour session.  TER has a field for it: "multiple pops"  Buy a VIP and do your homework.

I don't think this qualifies for upselling because you had your pop.

Your post on the GD board clearly indicates that you went into this with your eyes wide shut and a total lack of perspective as to who these women are and the level of respect they deserve.  Had you done your homework to begin with, you would have found a provider in the NYC area that would have rocked your world and you would not have wasted $5K.

Providers are as different as the women that they are.  Most will give multiple pops, but some won't.  Also, if they do not like the way they are being treated, they will probably send you the message that you are done upon your pop.

Good luck

Well considering you said you felt the need to "almost slap" one girl... Sorry but if you found it amusing to even post such a thing, I'm thinking maybe you just come across the wrong way to some ladies, at the very least.

man i had no clue people would get so mad over a little rant. Hell, I didn't even know i was putting anyone down in that post other then myself.

Anyway, what do you do when they TELL YOU on the phone multi's are ok and then upsell you after? This has nothing to do with well reviewed providers. I sometimes get horny on the fly and want to see a random girl off cl or backpage. It turns me on.

P.S. I have done all the research. I just want to know how to handle a situation where one tries to scam me. I have given them the money because I love women, but then i feel riped off heh....

Look, every provider i have seen has loved me. If want a personal date I will be more then happy to show you how much of a gentleman I am. I get calls asking when I am coming back.

I just want to know how to handle an upsell like that.

I think I'm gonna bring a stopwatch and pop exactly 30 minutes in and if they say another will cost extra I'll pay for the 30 minutes and leave heh.

Personally, I would be very leary of any provider whom you have never met and yet she will discuss the number of pops over the phone. I do understand where you are coming from, I see CL ladies also, but one pop is standard with them. Anytime I start to feel like I have been ripped off, I remind myself that all the lady really owes you is 60 minutes of her time, all else is a bonus.

I don't always read the GD board, and missed your post, and the deserved disdain!!!

I'm known for being a nice guy, willing to help the newbies.  I try to keep everything positive.  But this case is different!

What TER gal will discuss multiple pops over the phone?!?  Looks like you need to do more research!!!

"I almost slaped one 22 year old who said it would cost 40 every time i touched her after the first pop."  WTF is that about?!?  What, paying for sex entitles you to threaten, abuse, and get violent with providers?!?  Your attitude was the cause of the response to your rant.

-- Modified on 3/23/2008 8:52:19 PM

does that include the 22 year old you "almost slaped" (sic)?  Multiple-pops are not usually a problem.  Looks like you are looking in the wrong places.

the man still has not dialed the phone to even set up a date witha provider!

Can you say a child that wants attention is amongst our midst!

No reviews and no clue, all I need at this point!

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-- Modified on 3/24/2008 6:31:49 AM

In 20 years of hobbying I've never had a single provider call me and ask me when I'm coming back to see her again...

As for your MSOG issue. I have to be honest, if you shop on CL and BP you are gonna get what you get. I make impulse buys when I'm horny and on the road to and I seldom wind up with a girl that I would want to see again.  Your experiences in this hobby will almost always be directly related to how much research you do, where you choose to shop and, to a certain extent, how much you are willing to spend.

LMAO! I have yet to receive such a phone call either. And if I call them back, they always tell me to get in line at TicketMaster to check for availability and purchase another ticket.

While I'll agree the OP has a lot of growing up to do, I can't believe you've never been contacted by a provider asking for a return engagement, unless of course you are married and asked her not to contact you.

I am no Cassanova, but I have had providers contact me on many, many occasions to get together again. BTW I am single and I make no efforts to discourage a lady from contacting me if she likes. I have no delusions that they are calling me because of my studlyness, but if you are clean, respectful, and not a cheap ass it should be no surprise that a provider would want to see you again.

Stay the full hour, get that silly massage, pay the full rate and if I was pissed off as you seem to be write a review to warn others.  In general it not worth retaliating in any manner other than to just  move on.

overly frisky....

and it has always seem to be at the right time...


-- Modified on 3/24/2008 9:51:17 AM

I do in fact have regular contact with my to ATF's but they both know that my cell phone and email are safe for them. I am married and make no attempt to hide that from providers. I would hope that any lady would be as discrete as all of the fine women I have met in this hobby over the years when it comes to contacting their clients unexpectedly.

-- Modified on 3/24/2008 10:20:19 AM

-- Modified on 3/24/2008 6:43:29 PM

You need to read the juicy details in the reviews and not just the profile which is put in place by the first reviewer.  If most of the reviews under the details indicate multiple pops then that is what you should expect.  

There is no substitute for doing your research.  

I know I know do the research. But I'm not married and I don't have a gf. I could never hobby while i was in a relationship. So I don't have that excitement and danger to make it hot.

The thrill and adrenaline rush of seeing some complete stranger you just got off of CL, not knowing where or who you are going to see at 2 am, and maybe perhaps getting busted by LE. This is what draws me into doing fly-by hobbing heh.

I am saving Gina Rollins for a special occasion trust me.

CL may eventually get you into deep trouble.  Very few reliable ladies there.  Lots of B & S, upsell and other drama await you, especially at 2 am.