So someone recently posted asking what one should do if you arrive at the provider and find for whatever reason you're not attracted to them (In some cases it's bait-n-switch, in other cases it's just that real life is not the same as the photo and the fantasy)
So I'm curious... what do *providers* do if the customer shows up and you just don't find him attractive? I know, the money is what bridges the gap, but do you ever find yourself with someone you find SOOO unattractive that you just want to send him away
I've been with ones who kept their eyes closed the whole time.
Posted By: Anthony4
So someone recently posted asking what one should do if you arrive at the provider and find for whatever reason you're not attracted to them (In some cases it's bait-n-switch, in other cases it's just that real life is not the same as the photo and the fantasy)
So I'm curious... what do *providers* do if the customer shows up and you just don't find him attractive? I know, the money is what bridges the gap, but do you ever find yourself with someone you find SOOO unattractive that you just want to send him away?
Im the type that has to find something attractive about you. Its not just the roses for me. If its not there n theres no attraction I politely decline the date. Even offering a friend in replacement. Im not a robot I don't just shut off and do everyone and everything.
Worst case scenario the connection is not there....if that's the case then i just give it my all. But how someone physically looks won't ever turn me off immidetly. One of my best lovers are average to below average by society standards. And some with model looks are just okay lovers.....all about the mind sex 😋😋
I would rather not go through with the appointment. In my opinion, it would create an awkward situation for all involved and I don't know anyone who wants that. When I first started my policy was to meet new friends for coffee or a meal first. While this was partially for extra screening, it was also to ensure that we were both comfortable with each other. I would much rather refer a client to someone else than to create a situation that's not enjoyable.
For once I agree with Fancy. Just shut your eyes and spread'em woman!! Your getting big bucks for this shit. If you can't do that, that makes you shallow. Now for guys, we have it a bit different. We can't just get it up anytime we want. When it comes to women,yes, I'm one of the shallow ones. Must be HOT! #justsayin
Maybe in my youthful teenage days did rock hard abs and muscular physique matter slightly. Once a client establishes my comfort ability verifying he is legit and safe, RESPECT is huge for me. I believe in mutual respect. I would never demand it if I myself couldn't reciprocate. When I meet a selfless, kind hearted client it trumps anything physical. I definitely would NEVER turn a client away because of their appearance. But what is unattractive to me is disrespect and cockiness. If a client walked in like he was God's gift to mankind and shows me any type of disrespectful behavior, I will and have turned them away.
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