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what are you really interested in?
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No reviews means your interested in a couple of people who have enough money and someones pictures to put up an ad. The pictures may or may not be of them, they may or may not be legit providers and they may or may not provide a level of service at a set price to give you a good experience. See why everyone says stick to well reviewed providers? Yes there are ways to lesson some of the risks of TOFTT but you admit your new to this, well that means your chances of coming away happy from just a pretty picture are very bad. Stop looking at pictures first, get VIP read reviews find well reviewed ladies that you know will make you happy then from that list go look at their pictures and get turned on by a legit provider.

Posted By: strictlyfs
Hi All,

I am interested in a couple ladies on eros who are visiting whom I could not find any reviews. Being that I'm kind of new to this, do you think it's a bad idea to arrange a meeting with them? Dilemma, dilemma...

Hi All,

I am interested in a couple ladies on eros who are visiting whom I could not find any reviews. Being that I'm kind of new to this, do you think it's a bad idea to arrange a meeting with them? Dilemma, dilemma...

- do they have professional pictures?
- are they professional and courteous in corresponding with you?
- do they advertise on sites like EROS etc?
- is their website fairly professional looking?

I have no reviews and people still spend time with me. :D Some women are just new and don't have reviews yet, and some prefer not to be reviewed.

Go with your gut!

Bea

No reviews means your interested in a couple of people who have enough money and someones pictures to put up an ad. The pictures may or may not be of them, they may or may not be legit providers and they may or may not provide a level of service at a set price to give you a good experience. See why everyone says stick to well reviewed providers? Yes there are ways to lesson some of the risks of TOFTT but you admit your new to this, well that means your chances of coming away happy from just a pretty picture are very bad. Stop looking at pictures first, get VIP read reviews find well reviewed ladies that you know will make you happy then from that list go look at their pictures and get turned on by a legit provider.

Posted By: strictlyfs
Hi All,

I am interested in a couple ladies on eros who are visiting whom I could not find any reviews. Being that I'm kind of new to this, do you think it's a bad idea to arrange a meeting with them? Dilemma, dilemma...

Now I've got a one for you, striclyfs. Are you even reading the replies to your questions here? Because a few days ago you asked us how you can find providers in New York, and it appears you're doing the opposite of what everyone advised. What gives, man?

Although Eros is probably a better bet than BP, you should still stick with well reviewed providers while you are starting out.

If she doesn't have reviews and a website you are rolling the dice. Too many fake/stolen pics. Many times TGTBT really is TGTBT.

I would let some of the more experienced reviewers TOFTT especially if you have a lot to lose.

Posted By: strictlyfs
Hi All,

I am interested in a couple ladies on eros who are visiting whom I could not find any reviews. Being that I'm kind of new to this, do you think it's a bad idea to arrange a meeting with them? Dilemma, dilemma...

I can't count how many times a guy went to see a "good looking" un-reviewed provider and was seriously disappointed or worse...
If a provider is "visiting" and has no reviews, big red flag! I've been a provider for 1 1/2years now and I have not yet attempted to travel. It's time consuming,expensive, and potentially dangerous going to a city you don't know.

If you are new I HIGHLY suggest never seeing someone without 3+ good reviews. The other older more experienced gentlemen can take the chances on the non-reviewed ladies...but let the experimenting be for the more experienced! True, the ladies could be new or just not have many reviews(took me nearly 4-5months to get 3 reviews)but as you still being a newbie go with reviewed ladies.(and as stated above don't see any visiting ladies who have no reviews ever)

about 6% of the time the unreviewed ladies turn out to be average and 4% of the time better than average ...but 90% of the time they are rip offs,bait and switch, or terrible providers.

Take your chances if you want, but if it goes sour don't come crying on the boards here!

I've always found it interesting how many women tour with no reviews.

Touring is expensive. Of course, if a lady stays busy, then tours can more than worth the expense. But when touring even more so than staying local, staying busy is crucial.

There are one of two things women can count on for business:

1. A solid reputation built on reviews and visibility

or

2. Counting on being able to sucker in enough guys who don't know to look for reviews

If she's not counting on the former, chances are she's counting on the latter. The long and short of it is, most sensible ladies don't try tours until they've got some reviews to show for themselves.

That's the thing, of course we're on TER, and on here everybody knows the use of reviews. But there are plenty who just look at the ads and give a call, rolling the dice.

And sure you can say its a bad idea, and maybe it is, but if that unreviewed girl is a complete win then was it a bad idea? Well, it was a risky idea that paid off.

Your right about it being a gamble, but even in Vegas you know what your odds are and you know what your risking and you control how much you lose if your smart. If all you were risking in what you described was a bad date versus a good date then that is fine. But for a newbie you could be risking a good date versus a bad date, or an LE sting, a girl who takes your money and runs, a girl who has a pimp right behind her who takes your money and wallet and anything else of value, or a girl who convinces you to spend twice to three times the going rate for half the standard service.If you look at these boards newbies experience all of the negatives a lot more then the positive experience. I started back in the days before the internet and reviews and had to learn quickly how to manage those risks and in 12 years , while I had successful dates, I only had one date as good as the first date I had with a well reviewed provider. So while a newbie may have good luck he doesn't have to leave it to luck. We say to newbies take the sure thing, learn the standard of good service, then when you learn all that if you want to gamble for the hidden gem go ahead and TOFTT. If a bunch of guys didn't TOFTT there would be no reviewed ladies to pick from.

Posted By: RockNRollerman
That's the thing, of course we're on TER, and on here everybody knows the use of reviews. But there are plenty who just look at the ads and give a call, rolling the dice.

And sure you can say its a bad idea, and maybe it is, but if that unreviewed girl is a complete win then was it a bad idea? Well, it was a risky idea that paid off.

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