And I don't mean just lust.. I've seen others and all is well.. Last week I saw a new girl to me.. well reviewed (over 50) here.. and I had a great time.. but she really clicked with me.. and now I have feelings for her outside of my usual lust type thoughts.. so need some advice.. I have an appt with another provider who I have seen several times before.. next week.. and I'm losing my enthusiasm for my upcoming visit..I am trying to figure out if I should go nuts and see a bunch of new girls to bury my feelings.. or just go with the flow.. since my visit last week I have had a steady stream of communications with her.. and it's all very chummy.. I'm not doing this to get hurt.. but frankly, it's been a very long time since I have felt this way and it feels prettty good..
And its very easy to develop feelings for a provider that you click with. Happens to many of us at one point or another. But you need to keep the relationship professional. If you like being with her then I encourage you to go back. If you've lost your enthusiasm for other girls that's fine too. But if you start to think that there's a potential for a relationship you are going to ruin it. You'll start acting weird, which will cause her to get uneasy, and then you won't get to see her at all. So by all means go with the flow, but recognize your feelings as a normal reaction to being intimate with someone that you really click with. Instead of seeking a relationship, be a really good client and enjoy her company.
It never really occured tome that I could have a legit relationship with her..she's just a wonderful, real person.. Other providers get into it.. do their thing but never make me feel that I am anything but a nice guy among many... This one is just different .. Good advice about not getting strange and spooking her.. I just have to keep my cool and enjoy what I have when I have it..
See her as often as you want but keep in mind she is not your GF. The feelings can be great and you can enjoy what you have, but if you start to believe what you feel you can be setting yourself up for disaster. Go with the flow but remember it likely is what it is and nothing more.
Merely means they are fantastic at their job. I have been in several professions where the people have commented that the thought crossed their mind not to pay me because I was so friendly. My performance that created that attitude was to increase tips. Sorry.
Listen to Fat Elvis. That is exactly how you should proceed with this provider. Always keep it professional and tip the girl if you can. She must be a great gfe.
Posted By: FatElvis
And its very easy to develop feelings for a provider that you click with. Happens to many of us at one point or another. But you need to keep the relationship professional. If you like being with her then I encourage you to go back. If you've lost your enthusiasm for other girls that's fine too. But if you start to think that there's a potential for a relationship you are going to ruin it. You'll start acting weird, which will cause her to get uneasy, and then you won't get to see her at all. So by all means go with the flow, but recognize your feelings as a normal reaction to being intimate with someone that you really click with. Instead of seeking a relationship, be a really good client and enjoy her company.
and fall in love with each in her turn. Repetitive meetings can be more than the brain can withstand. Remember there's a sex driven bonding hormone surge... great for the continuation of the cave man species... but can seriously cloud our judgment. My advise is to go slow... especially slow... Relationships with providers usually do not work... but we can not say never. There are rare exceptions... we don't hear about them much on this side of the hobby. She could just be 'nice to you' because it is good for business. It will take time to figure this out. Be a bit slow to get into serious discussions with her. A provider often runs or refuses a guy who wants to be a BF or possibly becomes a stalker... trouble in her world. If it became serious would she continue to work? Or would she retire & could you support both of you?
of the hormonal accelerator pedal and coast a bit. See if the attraction endures and grows or maybe fades a bit. It can only help; a romantic relationship with a provider is waaayyy more complicated than an ordinary civvie relationship, and taking it slowly is the only way it could ever possibly succeed in the long run IMO.
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