...thanks buddy! you ruined it for the rest of us!
j/k
Is it possible that there could be cops on here?
I found an ad on Eros for this really hot "college student" that only had an email address. I searched it on here, and found a newly created profile, with two new reviews from January from two users that are also brand new and have never reviewed any other girls but this one. Is it possible it is all fake?
Maybe I'm being paranoid because I was just reading about some Escort Police stings done in my city within the last 6 months. I start thinking about the possible outcome if I got caught up in one of these and I soon convince myself I'm not even going to try it out. But then my little head starts thinking for my big head and I start to think maybe this is the real deal and I should give it a shot
Anybody have any advice or insight?
I'm sure there are cops on every board on the planet. The difference is that LE tends to pick the easy to get, low hanging fruit. These are usually the people that post on local CL boards who don't screen.
Your best bet is to get VIP access, (only $20 and it will save you hundreds in frustration, ripoffs, and bad experiences), read the reviews thoroughly, and at first visit only WELL reviewed ladies (20+ reviews), and ensure that they screen. It makes me a little nervous when the provider doesn't screen or ask for references.
The best thing is to trust your gut but do not allow yourself to become too paranoid. Your safest bet is to get a hotel room, ask the provider for an outcall there and give her the information in a 2 call system. 1.) When she's close to the area you say you are ask her to call you so you can give the hotel name and then 2.) Have her call when she gets there and give the room number. Police usually only setup stings at places they can setup and control hours before hand. That is why you usually here about stings happening where the provider has an incall at a hotel and the client comes to her. I hope this helps, and happy hobbying!
Good for you for doing your homework...NOW stay away from EROS LOL..that whole site is turning fake. YES the girl you are looking at could be a cop and is FAKE!!!
ALWAYS look for reivews and try www.preferred411.com or ECCIE.net if you are in the Dallas TX area...those a really popular
Holly?
How do they really work?
Here is my concern/perception based on total ignorance:
They get your data: credit card, employer, address, etc. It is loaded into a data base. It is tied to a particular id.
Then you make appt contact via thier posting service, perhaps even use them like an agency to finalize the posting.
Isn't this just making you MORE exposed to LE? More documented hard evidence available to roll up even more providers/hobbiest in one pass?
I would love to learn more about the pro and con here. I have seen this service in a few cities and it just seems higher risk than agency incalls
I am sure there are plenty of cops posing on eros, but lately they have raised their rates,
and there are plenty of legit ladies on them, I for one, am one of them!
Please don't over generalize, we aren't all bad!
In this hobby. That is a well known fact.
What you don't want to do is become the low hanging fruit, or the easy target.
The provider who has only two reviews, both by first time reviewers should be bypassed. Watch for additional reviews by credible reviewers. Sometimes they come, sometimes not. Don't take the risk.
Surely You can find a well reviewed provider in your area.
If it is a public access board, there is no way to keep LE from reading it. Could LE set up a sting here, sure. It seems a bit complicated for LE, but that impression is just a guess with no concrete data. I want more certainty than that.
I really have misgivings about "college students" or others of that age. They have to be new to the business, if of legal age. They are often a hoty but services are widely variable.
Congradulations on doing your homework. You have learned an invalueable lesson. You do not have to write this one "off" forever. I add these to my TER Favorites list with a note to check for more reviews in the future. A provider needs several... 6-10 reviews by experienced reviewers for me to consider them "well reviewed". You'll need VIP to read the full reviews.
Best Wishes,
skb
Good call. There is a reason why the advice offered to newbies is to only see well-reviewed providers who have reviews from establishe reviewers.
Move on. Maybe come back to her in a few months after she gets some more reviews.
Thank you everyone for the great replies. Two more questions though...
1-Somone said to use P411. What is better about that board then here? Couldnt LE get on there just as easy as here?
2-So I've seen the standard undercover hooker setups on the show COPS and where they really just try to get the guy to say he wants sex for money. But in a situation like this, can the cops really bust you for just trying to hire an escort?
What makes you think there are NOT cops here? This is not a secret society, it's a public website.
That being said, it's more likely the Eros ad you saw is either a bait and switch. I would stay away.
I LOVE p411 and there are cops on that too. P411 helps you see each girl, her reviews,pics likes and dislikes all on her profile and with a click of a button. VERY cool site for screening and picking out your dream girl
Make contact via email and wait for her to reply. Use of email shows that the provider prefers the slow route for setting dates. Slow is not what cops running a sting or ripoff artists go for. In your first email, introduce yourself and say that you saw her ad and are considering setting up an appointment with her. Write nothing else until she replies. Wait for her to reply. Her reply should be general information about her availability and some reference to her screening requirements. I am a veteran hobbyist with one active review on TER. The number of reviews that I have written during my hobbying career is around 14. I am approaching 500 individual or repeat encounters with providers over my hobby experience. My dates cover the range from providers that do little screening to extensive screeners, elegant top tier providers to college age providers. I have been burned and I have had spectacular encounters. One constant that I have witnessed during my two decades plus of hobbying is that the more patient a provider is, the greater the probability that she is the real deal. My most memorable encounters were with two ladies that I came within a second of passing on, one I did pass on twice before trying her. Don't let an encounter that you may cherish until your dying day pass you by easily, take the email challenge, roll with it. Use common sense, be careful.
...thanks buddy! you ruined it for the rest of us!
j/k