I know that every client I see I want to do every thing I can to get the best expierience that i can so that i can recive a well earned review  
from being on time - to responding to any emails in a timely manner - from making sure I look the best I can as if I was going to the Grammys to being fun and catering to my client  so I would say look for the providers that that ARE BOTH read as many as her reviews look at her ratings if you find some one that you like then pursue seeing her remember there are very many providers that take there job very seriously and care about there reputation and some that are not so serious and do not care so choose wisely and enjoy all of what this little secret world has to offer  
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Your post compels me to ponder a steak dinner: Do I want my steak done well or well done or BOTH? Actually, I want it done well but medium rare.