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Well, of course not!
johngaltnh 6 Reviews 1064 reads
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Logically, what man in his right mind would write a review about how much he enjoyed (?!?) getting it in the rear or tied up and whipped or whatever gets done?

I mean, the poor guy would have no reputation left and the whole world would pick on him for it.

So I just can't imagine there would be many reviews of this sort of thing.

Just wondering - why have I not read about any domination or light BDSM play on this site?  It seems everyone is only into straight sex.  Are there no naughty boys out there?

-- Modified on 8/18/2009 7:13:45 PM

octovert1324 reads

It seems they are a minority. And I have no idea how many exist who have multiple fetishes as I do.

It must be fairly common because nearly all the ladies I've seen have it on the menu. Why would they offer something that isn't wanted? I've never inquired because I'm practically paranoid about being restrained -- but it is obviously offered.

At the same time, consider that this is a relatively public forum where stuff that might be considered out of the mainstream even just a little can come in for harsh criticism.

I would suspect that a lot of clients have desires/fetishes/ideas that they may mention in private, but not in public.

Also, I think that in many cases sexual novelty (i.e. just a different person) is more of a draw than specific aspects of sex -- though not always.

Just my hunch. I say, put S&M on your site if you like it; and see who looks you up.

My ATF has a very active BDSM Dominate business, but the guys whom she takes in the ass with strap-ons and beats with whips for some reason don’t want to write reviews about that experience ????

Logically, what man in his right mind would write a review about how much he enjoyed (?!?) getting it in the rear or tied up and whipped or whatever gets done?

I mean, the poor guy would have no reputation left and the whole world would pick on him for it.

So I just can't imagine there would be many reviews of this sort of thing.

I personally really enjoy both being a dom and performing light BDSM play by tying up the girl and sensually dominating her.  But searching through TER it is pretty hard to find providers that mention they are into this AND are willing to do it.  It may just be that this site doesn't really have a good way to search for that (selecting "Heavy" for S&M is helpful but doesn't really fit the bill), or it may just be that not too many providers are offering that type of service - which I can understand because it does take trust to submit to someone you barely know.

Anyway, just wanted to let you know that there are naughty boys out there - like me!  :-p
The question is where are all the naughty girls willing to provide for us?  :-)

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