In her case, neither! I would never waste my time with a girl who is pretty much promising an up-sell experience once you get to the appointment.  Far too many legit GFE options are available with no  game playing involved.

for example, the standard rate may be CBJ and the GFE, BBBJ.

Of course, it could mean lots of other things.

You could also PM the people she's seen and see if they can explain it.

I don't think it is an upsell. She is just has two different options on the menu and the rate is more for the gfe.
Not exactly my style but hey...if it works for her then who am I to judge.

interest in seeing a provider that states 2 rates in her ad.  one rate for what she calls standard and a higher one for GFE.  she is a well reviewed provider on TER.  since it is not appropriate to discuss actions over phone or e.mail how can i decide which one  i want before the visit.  thought about scheduling for standard visit and let her do the upsell  once we meet face to face

If YMMV is a potential factor, especially if she states that is so, not worth your time, effort, or Benjamins.

I agree with Crazy. I prefer to know exactly what I will receive for my $  Call it what you want,  There are way to many ladies who will give you exactly what you want, and you will not need to ask any questions. BTW the term gfe is one of the most miss used term in the business. I prefer to read the juicy details of the review and the escort's web site to know what I'm going to receive.

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I see your point and I would like to think that you are right. As the customer, I'm not willing to take the risk. Too much gray area. LOL, of course, I haven't seen the gal's reviews either.  If I got a good feeling from them I might roll the dice...

If it's stated up front yes or no? Not everyone wants to kiss a provider or cuddle she's kiss new gf or experience her downtown with his mouth....guys go to providers for different things right? I could be wrong but I always thought it was upsell if it was a surprise.

Follow your gut.... as always hope it works out either way.