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BigGuy1976 1 Reviews 3060 reads
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1 / 15

It's not until Tuesday of next week but I'm super stoked about it.  It's taken me 6 months of TER and a few other sites to get to this point.  Fear is what got in my way.  From my SO (who knows but doesn't want to know), LE concerns, and my weight being an issue for a provider were all things I had to get over.  I think I'm finally there!  Anyway, I just wanted to share my excitement with someone and this is the only place I can do that!  LMAO

danbo2000 976 reads
posted
3 / 15

Nice job FG, I'm hoping to pop my cherry soon too. Let us know how it goes!

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 1065 reads
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4 / 15

...Something may come up for her or she may want to know if you're going to keep the appointment.

jayscorpio 4 Reviews 876 reads
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5 / 15

I assume so, but if not, you should tell her at an appropriate time during your session.  My First adapted her effort to ensure a smooth, pleasant "indoctrination," giving me the confidence and courage to know I'd made the right decision.  I was so nervous/excited that I went a little overboard getting ready, doing more little things for that date than I'd done for any woman for years.  (nothing too over-the-top... that'd be weird)  But being nervous and going "overboard" was good.  Take a moment, shortly before your session, to lock that feeling in your memory.  Now, when I book with any woman, I always try to remember how nervous I was for that first one, so I go equally "overboard."  It makes every experience better.

Stogiemanedu 43 Reviews 1236 reads
posted
6 / 15

Be clean, bring the green, have fun and do not overthink it and ruin it.

BigGuy1976 1 Reviews 697 reads
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7 / 15
BigGuy1976 1 Reviews 3021 reads
posted
8 / 15

I guess I can just assume that is normal.  I'm already wondering what I'm going to wear, etc.  I'm hoping to go out tonight to watch some of the basketball tourney and hopefully get my mind off it for a bit lol

littlecheddar 681 reads
posted
9 / 15

Hope you have a great time!!  I just started out in this stuff and have just had a couple of massages, not full service.  I have to say that I was scared both times about LE both when the provider came to my hotel and when I went to hers(different lady).  Both times were great and after it got going, I don't know what I was so worried about.   I have to say that both were great experiences and I felt like a porn star when the one lady let me fuck her tits.  What an experience.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 998 reads
posted
10 / 15

then submit a complete review to help future hobbyists.

Get plenty of rest and have a great time!

trowe 982 reads
posted
11 / 15

1.  No matter how friendly or nice she is,  she considers you (or any other hobbyist) as just an ATM machine.

2.  Be sure to bring back up condoms.  Even experienced providers often forget.

3.  Be sure that you are willing to jeopardize your relationship with your SO.

4.  "The pleasure is momentary, the position ridiculous, and the expense damnable.” (Lord Chesterfield)

HalfHour 590 reads
posted
12 / 15

Make sure you loofa that ass! LOL!

Good lick... uh luck!

;)
HH

danbo2000 776 reads
posted
13 / 15

I was expecting FatGuy to post about his "first date" last night and here it is early afternoon and nothing!!! I hope it didn't kill the poor guy but what a way to go. ;)

Posted By: FatGuy1976
It's not until Tuesday of next week but I'm super stoked about it.  It's taken me 6 months of TER and a few other sites to get to this point.  Fear is what got in my way.  From my SO (who knows but doesn't want to know), LE concerns, and my weight being an issue for a provider were all things I had to get over.  I think I'm finally there!  Anyway, I just wanted to share my excitement with someone and this is the only place I can do that!  LMAO

BigGuy1976 1 Reviews 977 reads
posted
14 / 15

I came down with an upper respitory infection and had to go to urgent care on Saturday.  I'm on antibiotics for another 4 days.  Needless to say I cancelled the appointment on Saturday.   She seemed ok but, I hated to do it.  I just don't want to pass this on.  Plus, I want to be at 100% lung capacity.

danbo2000 837 reads
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15 / 15

LOL, that sucks so bad! Don't mean to laugh but after 6 mos. I'm sure you're thinking you're cursed. Look at it this way, assuming you're only 35 years old, you have alot of time left to "pop your cherry". Good luck man. I'll let you know how my first goes sometime next week.

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