Heya,

I've been searching for an answer regarding this but i can't find exactly what i'm looking for (maybe my ignorance on terminology).

anyways, i've been getting more active as a hobbyist over the past 2 years.  Most of the time I visit parlors when traveling to other cities.  I've only been with a provider once i met off of craigslist.

I was in Dallas for business and decided it would be great to have company.  Unfortunately, i was drinking at a bar earlier.  Although i'm always nice and polite, it was evident i was drunk (my own dumb fault).  When the provider arrived at my hotel, i paid her up front and we started having fun- however, when we got on the topic of doing 'a little bit more' she said it would cost an additional $500.  Is this normal?  I wasn't sure if she was trying to rip me off because i was drunk (and i told her it was my first time).

Unfortunately i don't remember her name, and her pics were wrong so i can't identify her to write a review.  I'm just trying to figure out if this is something i should expect or if she was just pulling a fast one on me.  I'm trying to find someone cool and chill here in Denver as a regular, but I feel like I still need to know a bit more.

some insight or pointing me in the right direction would be helpful

Of course she was trying to take advantage of your drunk ass...

So what you want from us again?  Identify her? I wasn't there in the room with you, was I...

Were any of you guys with this guy?

I mean seriously?  

What do you drink BTW?

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So maybe that was her rate to deal with your stench and bad hygiene maybe? Boorish behavior? Who knows. You broke major etiquette so at that point you were lucky she didnt split.

If you want someone "cool", get a VIP membership here and see well reviewed ladies.

Read the newbie sections in the self help center (located at upper right of Newbie board). Read it thru several times. Follow the part about etiquette to a "T".

Read the threads here from last several months.

Come back and ask any follow up questions.

Good luck.

you should only smell like a fresh shower and breath mints/mouthwash. And make sure the lady drinks, too. Not all of them do, and some arent crazy about you doing it in session either so work that out by phone/email before you meet up. Read her website from front to back as well.

can you spell UPSELL..unfortunately all newbies learn the hard way..staying sober will help the learning process immensely..

She's using fake pics and tried to upsell you for $500, and you wouldn't give her a bad review? Then seriously, and no offense, but what the fuck good are you to the rest of the community here?

You'd better start READING some of the insightful information here before you see any more escorts.

She should have either told you to leave knowing you were drunk and not taken the money, OR delivered. The thing is, I am not sure what or who you saw and what she offers. If she was only an FBSM provider and you wanted fs, then yes, there will be an extra charge...but fkin 500? Did you want her to dress up like a damn chicken or some shit?

You've said that the only experience you had was with a CL provider? Ding...Ding!!! You don't know her name, can't find the ad, so I would say you're fked...or not lol.

One last thing...call me bwahahaha.


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She just tried to get more out of you, because you basically told her that you didn't know how this worked.

If you want to find someone cool in Denver, try Alexandra Hill.  She is beyond cool and her pics are real.

I've linked you to the TER regional ad board, do your shopping for providers on the regional board. Also try going to reviews > new reviews > Colorado. You'll be able to look at the daily new reviews for Colorado.  Also you can search the ter Colorado reviews data base as well.

TER is weak in Colorado, there is a better regional escort board. However, due to TER rules I cannot mention the name of the board. Use your imagination and google some key words.

Posted By: Derpadirka

Heya,

I've been searching for an answer regarding this but i can't find exactly what i'm looking for (maybe my ignorance on terminology).

anyways, i've been getting more active as a hobbyist over the past 2 years.  Most of the time I visit parlors when traveling to other cities.  I've only been with a provider once i met off of craigslist.

I was in Dallas for business and decided it would be great to have company.  Unfortunately, i was drinking at a bar earlier.  Although i'm always nice and polite, it was evident i was drunk (my own dumb fault).  When the provider arrived at my hotel, i paid her up front and we started having fun- however, when we got on the topic of doing 'a little bit more' she said it would cost an additional $500.  Is this normal?  I wasn't sure if she was trying to rip me off because i was drunk (and i told her it was my first time).

Unfortunately i don't remember her name, and her pics were wrong so i can't identify her to write a review.  I'm just trying to figure out if this is something i should expect or if she was just pulling a fast one on me.  I'm trying to find someone cool and chill here in Denver as a regular, but I feel like I still need to know a bit more.

some insight or pointing me in the right direction would be helpful

I would say first of all, you were upsold.  The reason is known only to her, but it probably had multiple reasons.  Your lack of sobriety, and admitted ignorance of how the hobby works are probably at the top of the list.  Not knowing the circumstances of your original arrangement, I can only say a $500 upsell is pretty big, and def not normal.  It would appear to me that you did not research the lady ahead of time, which is never a good idea.  You should know what you can expect before making contact with her.

Do a search for 'research' on here, you will get a lot of ideas.

Swim

reading the self help section (link by the life saver) and back several pages on this board...  unjtil you can answer every question yourself.  You were badly upsold.  500 could get 2 dates in my area...  maybe even with change...  
A newbie hobbiest, has not done his homework, does not know how the game is played, and has been drinking...  is a easy mark.  You can read & learn and eliminate many of these issues.   It's up to you.

we really dont know what went down. Like I speculated in previous post, he might of stank, been rude, etc. She might have had no intention of upcharging him until she saw not just his state of mind, but experienced his personal hygiene as well. Maybe she just assessed the situation and said to herself "this guy in his inebriated, smelly state, is worth X to me tonite." I have no more problem with that than if she evaluated what to charge for a lengthy outcall drive or asked to do anal or anything else that would be an upcharge situation. You state she could have turned him down. Maybe. But you dont know her financial situation and why should she lose money because he acted improperly? Look, is it possible she took advantage of him? Sure. But since he broke major etiquette here, not her, I think she gets the benefit of the doubt on this one. Just my 2 cents.

If it was something ridiculously low like $100 for an hour, then you have to know that you'll get nothing but a handshake for that.

It's called bait and switch, and the better providers like you'll find reviewed here won't do that, but if you go pot luck off of Craig's List, I wouldn't be surprised that you would find that.

The drinking part probably didn't help matters any.

Sorry, but I am not going to charge a guy at all, much less MORE if he is drunk. He will be charged 100 bucks for wasting my time by showing up drunk, and he really does not have to pay that. Saying a guy did this and that, and still taking his money is not cool. If he was that bad, NO AMOUNT of money would suffice. She is using his "being drunk" as an excuse to take advantage of him. Look, I normally never side with someone like this but he should have been shown the door, and not ripped off.

So, would if she would have discovered he had a smelly ass? Should she also charge him 500 more? What about if he was not cut below and it grossed her out? Another upsell? I call bullshit. Pretty soon women are going to think of even the smallest of things to use as an excuse to rip a guy off. Either he was too drunk to deal with, or he was not. Either way, she lacks integrity.

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