I understand that there is a couple of days wait for new members to see a message they posted but I have been waiting and waiting and have now seen a single one of mine on this boards? Im writing this message to see if it will show up.

I'm not sure what issue you are referring to.  Here are links to all of your posts on the newbie board:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=29555&boardID=33
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=31189&boardID=33
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=31190&boardID=33

jazz32