I was working as an escort briefly back at the end of 2009 Things were much simpler you either post , backpage, craigslist, and the city paper and your phone would be on fire...now its like I'm lost in the sauce.I really would appreciate some feedback and guidence.please and thank you

Yes, even in just 4 years things do change a lot in this world. Today you need to establish an online presence for yourself, just like and personal business. So a website is now more important then back then. There are ssome free ones you can start with, and you should get some good quality photos. It is a good move on your part that you joined TER. There is a lot of info here to help you get up to speed. Check out the self help center (link below the "life preserver"); also you can search back on these threads for advice. Also, you are welcome to post any questions here, the people are most helpful, ladies and gentlemen. Our goal is to help make this as safe and easy for you as possible.  
Good luck to you. :-

Read the self help center and peruse this forum, they will both help you get back into the swing of things here.

Its tougher than it should be. It should still be the way you mentioned.

make a guy feel like a king for an hour or whatever time you are together, and make the cost reasonable for your area, you will do well. If you upsell or try to price yourself out of the local market, your phone will not ring very much or your email box will be nearly empty, depending on your method of contact.