want 2 b satisfied how do i accomplish? how do i start? never tried escort b4

Take some time to read at least several pages of the Newbie forum, and I also suggest that you obtain a VIP membership so that you can read reviews in their entirety and communicate backchannel with other TER members.

Try searching the Newbie forum for topics that interest you, and you will likely find that many discussion threads already exist.  

In addition, you may find it helpful to check out the link below:

I would like to point out that this is not a chat room.  Try not using chatspeak!  Examples:

to, not 2
before, not b4
Use of capitalization.  Notice that the first letter of each sentence I type is capitalized?