Just trying to fell this out my first time. A little lost.

If you have questions, all you have to do is ask.  I'm the newbie moderator, and there are lots of others willing to answer your questions.

Swim

at the top right of this board.  Also, you should read 2 or 3 pages of this board to get an idea of how this forum works.  There are many of us here that are more than willing to answer your questions.  BTW, there is a search feature that you should learn how to use because many of the questions are repeated about every 6 or 7 days; you will notice this if you read back several pages.

Good luck to you.

If you have a web site or an ad for which you can provide a link, please do so.  It's always nice to know what a gal looks like, and get other info about her.  Swim can give you advice on how to find the links that will permit you to use TER to your full advantage.
Good luck!