Hey all. I was thinking of hooking up with a provider today who only does incalls. problem is, I dont drive. So she was willing to have a driver come pick me up for free. She's independent and seems sincere. But I've never used a driver before and I'm a little apprehensive. Have you guys used a driving service in the past? Should I just use a taxi?
She may be completely legit, but why take the chance. With Brutus, the driver, involved, the lady is in complete control of the situation. If she pulls a bait and switch or a cash and dash on you or shortchanges you on time or services, you will have to just grin and bear it, if you don't want Brutus to beat the **** out of you. BTW Brutus will not pick you up for FREE - the lady increases her fees to compensate Brutus. Nothing in this hobby is FREE. FREE is the only four letter word that is completely taboo in this hobby.
I don't question her sincerity but the comfort level with the guy just isn't there. I have had providers pick me up before. It is not unusual.
I would get a cab in your case, make sure you are not outside waiting waiting for a cab in cold weather, unsafe location for too long after you are done.
This has stupid all over it. You really going to get in a car with a person you dont know.....to go see a person you never met. Be smart about you're doing.
And if you're that hard up on cash where you can't even take a cab, then you dont need to be hobbying at this.
to go see a lady if the lady didn't do outcalls. I would not let the lady send a driver to pick me up unless I had seen the lady several times previously and was comfortable with the arrangement.
in another city where I had to travel for work.
She would travel to different cities, and on occasion I would fly to see her at one of those cities. (Yup, she was really that good.)
We had left it that I would call her when I landed, and she would give me instructions from there. My thought is that I would take a cab to her hotel. Instead she told me to look for a driver who would be holding a sign for a very unusual name (to avoid confusion and protect my identity). Lo and behold, there was the guy (Just an average looking Joe, no livery or anything.
He took me to her hotel, and then after our long session, drove me back to the airport. This repeated at a different city some months later.
Now, I had been seeing this gal for about 2 years, and so I had a comfort factor with her. The disscussion during the ride was a might awkward I suppose (I think it was about the pros and cons of Volvos.) I tipped him $20 on the return ride.
So, while I have to agree with the warnings posted here, I did have a driver chauffeur me and here I am to tell the tale.
...And bring them to me.
The driver I used was from a service I'd worked with and he was a complete professional.
Here in Boston I have a private car service I use on occasion too who like the one before him is just someone with a beautiful vehicle, years of driving experience and working independently of his company on the side.
Don't be afraid of a driving service; the agency will not want to leave a bad impression by allowing someone shady to drive you.
Actually that brings up another point. Supposedly this provider is independent, but I looked up the number on BP and about 30 profiles from a dozen different women came up. Is this typical for women to share phone numbers and still be independent? Are they all operating out of a duplex or something?
Some independent providers utilize screeners or booking agents who work with several providers regionally or nationally at any given time. These providers are legitimately independent and are in control of their schedule, their rate structure, which clients they see and they pay the booking agent a fixed amount per week/month or per scheduled appointment.
However, whenever you see one phone number being used for multiple ladies on Backpage its nearly always either a pimp or a fly-by-night agency or UTR agency.
I was under the impression that you were making arrangements with a clear agency when I offered my thoughts above. If you were dealing with a reputable service or independent I would say accept the car service. If you're dealing with an entity that you're not certain of transport yourself.
yeah I think I'm just going to pass on this whole thing. There are far too many vairibles in this situation and I'm the cautious type.
Dear Livingfreak:
Not all of us are unscrupulous in our business practices. In fact I happen to be a very good adult companion transportation professional. I have a great reputation with the ladies that I work with and I have helped them move on to other opportunities within the business. I have protected their property and their persons and I have made sure that they had everything they needed to get through a particular night. Although there are bad apples in every profession, I find that most of us as well as myself would be beyond reproach.
Use a taxi to a call point like a coffee shop very close to her location. Let her know you'll be nearby. After your meeting, walk straight to a place where you can comfortably & safely wait for transportation.
Need to know... NO, no one else needs to know that much about you.
Taxi on that one, I am a provider and never offered that one. If the man cant find his own way then I would find that weird. Is either going to rob or desperate for money I think or suspicious of that.
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