I've been lurking for a bit while finishing my webpage, but I am finally deciding to introduce myself. I haven't yet posted an ad in my regional board, but I wanted to first thank the members of the newbie board. Without your thoughtful answers, it'd take lurkers like me longer to get our foot safely in the right direction.  

I think personally for me, I feel best at ease when you give a call and actually have a conversation with me. For alot of people I can imagine it's all about looks but I think if you put yourself out there as a easy person to talk to- it goes a long way. And if it's really hard, a meet and greet is always great too. It doesn't have to start so bashly. And for screening, my experience as a hobbyist has been largely out of 411 and been with full name/place of work/ID. And of course whitelisting and references should be your first go- to, I think to make yourself safe out there. Post your website when your comfortable, I would love to check it out. Be safe and have fun!

while stroking his head or face.

Smile and look directly into his eyes while you do so.

I'll tell you, he'll be putty in your hands in two seconds.

Do not ask him any personal questions, especially the dreaded:  Are you married?

If you must ask questions, make them along the lines of:  What is your fantasy you'd like me to fulfill?

Joining in the discussions on your local board will allow guys to get to know you a little better and feel more comfortable with seeing a new gal. The screening requirements of ladies range from nothing to everything she could possibily need to ruin a guys life. Most are fine with references or P411/DC but some require much more and seem to be able to get it. As a new provider I hope you can find a level of screening that makes you feel safe but doesn't prevent you from seeing the number of guys you need for your new business to prosper. Good luck Cassandra!

to you?  Someone to give you advice on screening, where to do incalls, and where not to do outcalls is critical.  Another provider who has been around awhile knows these answers and perhaps can be a doubles partner for later when you get this request.

I agree, being able to actually talk to someone and show them you're a real person helps put people at ease. I don't want to give my number out too freely, but if I feel like I'm on the same basic page with a potential client via email then I'll reach out to him with a phone call. Since I'm on the younger side, only 21, I'm a little worried some will question my maturity, but I'm hoping to hook 'em with my killer personality lol. I think my screening will consist of good reviews through P411 or TER, and their work place and I.D. I definitely don't want to compromise myself in any way, so I'd like to know who I'm spending my time alone with.

You know, I had thought about that, but didn't know the proper etiquette for doing so. After all, a lady's time is her most valuable asset and I don't want to assume a provider would help me freely. I also don't want to assume a provider in the same area as me will want to help out possible competition, but I also thought that further down the line how a friendship like that could be beneficial for both parties.

I don't think I'll have any issues with this

Some of us don't like using web forms and I didn't see a separate mention of your email address, even spam-protected: "cassandra at yahooooo dot com" or similar.  

You have a very good start with your website. As mentioned an email addy would be a good addition as many will not use a website form for personal security reasons. Joining some of the verification sites P411, DC, RS2K when you are eligible is another good step you can take. Once you get a few good reviews you will be on your way. Good Luck!

I don't know where I'd be without the gal who took me under her wing when I first started out, so I'm certainly more than willing to pay it forward. Feel free to shoot me an email! ([email protected])