for DATY are about it.

Otherwise, you can make a session as safe as you want by avoiding kissing, and even touching if that is what you want.  (Some guys just like to get themselves off while watching a gal do the same.)

We each make decisions regarding the risk of STDs, and all decisions are equally valid.

Washing together thoroughly before a session wouldn't hurt either.

Full body condom.  Lol.  All kidding aside, as Mr. Fisher explained, condoms are the standard of protection.  Stay away from risky practices such as private to private contact prior to putting on the condom.  Wash your hands before and after.  If you are uncomfortable with BBJ, ask for a CBJ. Gargle with mouthwash and shower after you are finished.

However, you need to understand that even with all of the above there is some risk.

Least risky is mutual masturbation or a massage with a self-finish or a HJ.

Just pull down your pants and lide on the ice.