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Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 2206 reads
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I made my first post on this board, wanting to get started as a provider but having no goddamn idea how. If it weren't for you wonderful people, I probably would have ended up getting myself into some trouble and out of some $. I still have plenty to learn, but I've learned so much from y'all and have been making some serious dough and having a blast doing it! I am forever indebted to you folks (you know who you are) for all of your invaluable help and advice, and I'm eternally grateful. Thank you all for everything! :)

London Rayne689 reads

Any time girl. You've clearly made your way as a provider, a business woman, and a friend to many. I am happy to know you. :)

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Tobi Telford565 reads

See now you're gonna make me all misty-eyed!

Posted By: London Rayne
Any time girl. You've clearly made your way as a provider, a business woman, and a friend to many. I am happy to know you. :)

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perfectstorm594 reads

I think you are one of the most successful results of the newbie board! I remember your first post and many subsequent posts. Many of us still steer new providers asking for help to search for those threads as they were "epic." It was fun watching you grow so fast and see how far you have come from that first post! And to me, most importantly, you came back and said "thanks" (numerous times too!), and you have come back with your experience and helped other newbies. So many folks come by and ask questions, and disappear. Sometimes common courtesy is missing. While swim and his highly unpaid assistants are always willing to help all newbies without anything in return, I'm sure I am not the only one here who appreciates being appreciated every once in a while. A simple thank you goes a long way!  
 
You are a class act Tobi Telford. Happy Holidays!  
Aloha!  


-- Modified on 12/18/2013 10:43:45 AM

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Tobi Telford512 reads

Posted By: perfectstorm
I think you are one of the most successful results of the newbie board! I remember your first post and many subsequent posts. Many of us still steer new providers asking for help to search for those threads as they were "epic." It was fun watching you grow so fast and see how far you have come from that first post! And to me, most importantly, you came back and said "thanks" (numerous times too!), and you have come back with your experience and helped other newbies. So many folks come by and ask questions, and disappear. Sometimes common courtesy is missing. While swim and his highly unpaid assistants are always willing to help all newbies without anything in return, I'm sure I am not the only one here who appreciates being appreciated every once in a while. A simple thank you goes a long way!  
    
 You are a class act Tobi Telford. Happy Holidays!  
 Aloha!    
 

-- Modified on 12/18/2013 10:43:45 AM

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perfectstorm964 reads

In a few short months:

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brilove550 reads

Scary I'm in the top if not #1 in many lol.

So very glad to have found TER and all the wonderful people here ... Honestly have made many friends ... Providers and clients ;)

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Duplicitouslust595 reads

Dear Ms. Telford:
I was just wondering in the course of a year how have you evolved as a provider and a business women? What are some of the things that you would do over again and what things wouldn't you do again? Also how would you rate yourself as a screener and what are some things that you would like to master as a businesswoman and a provider? Although you are respected as a hell of an associate by your peers, what do you think you need to do to have you Bachelors in the business?

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Tobi Telford898 reads

Okay, let me try breaking these down by each question:

1. As a provider, I wouldn't say I've "evolved" all that much. I try to be myself as much as possible and it's working out pretty well. As a businesswoman, I have really learned the importance of projecting the image of myself that I want to portray, and that includes investing in things like upscale hotels, a professionally designed website, etc. Don't get me wrong, though, I learn new things every day and still have plenty more to learn.  

2. Considering the fact that I knew NOTHING about screening when I started, I'd say I've come miles in that regard. In fact, a lot of potential clients change their minds about seeing me because my screening protocol is so thorough. I think the most important thing I've learned about screening is not to rely on just one tool to verify someone.  

3. I'd like to work on my organizational skills and my patience. I can be a bit scatterbrained at times. I still regularly turn to Professor Rayne for tips & tricks. She's the bomb. :D

Posted By: Duplicitouslust
Dear Ms. Telford:
I was just wondering in the course of a year how have you evolved as a provider and a business women? What are some of the things that you would do over again and what things wouldn't you do again? Also how would you rate yourself as a screener and what are some things that you would like to master as a businesswoman and a provider? Although you are respected as a hell of an associate by your peers, what do you think you need to do to have you Bachelors in the business?

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London Rayne487 reads

You know, patience is the ONLY damn virtue that can only be mastered by "going through?" That's right. "The only way we become patient is to keep going through the same crap that annoys us over and over and over and ooooooover again, until we finally get to the point where it does not bother us (Joyce Meyer, 2009)." LOL.

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GaGambler502 reads

Unfortunately by the time they got around to me, they must have run out, because I didn't get much.

I believe in moderation as long as I can "get enough of it" and that patience is a virtue as long as I can have it "right fucking now"

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lungman462 reads

Joyce is an awesome lady!!  
Thanks for mentioning her London.

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swimtrekr414 reads

That's what this board is for, to help those starting out.  You are still welcome to ask questions here, and you can help us answer others that ask stuff, if it's something you can help with.

Swim

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harborview433 reads

I'm glad that sharing our knowledge has helped you...  and helped us in the process...

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GaGambler476 reads

and BCG is one of the smart ones.

I hope she has several more good years here.

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Tobi Telford456 reads

Is it weird that I'm mildly aroused?

Posted By: GaGambler
and BCG is one of the smart ones.

I hope she has several more good years here.

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keystonekid624 reads

been around a while have to say.  The same advice is given to all who ask; what providers or hobbyists do with the advice is the difference.

Congratulations on a very good first year. Now, if you come to Florida on spring break, you can experience a true BFE encounter.  :-)

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Panthera12429 reads

May you be free from fleas in 2014 :)

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Tobi Telford507 reads

May your days be filled with tuna and paper bags!

Posted By: Panthera12
May you be free from fleas in 2014 :)

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lungman416 reads

to be a Buckeye. (BCG)
Be safe Tobi.

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EasyTimes506 reads

One of my favorite songs!  Especially the lines...

"Well she'd held a bass guitar and
 She was playing in a band.  
 And she stood just like Bill Wyman,  
 Now I am her biggest fan.
 Now I know I'm one of many who  
 Would like to be your friend"    

Ditto to what PS said!  Can't say it any better :-)

Related Link: Behind The Wall of Sleep

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Tobi Telford482 reads

Posted By: EasyTimes
One of my favorite songs!  Especially the lines...  
   
 "Well she'd held a bass guitar and  
  She was playing in a band.  
  And she stood just like Bill Wyman,  
  Now I am her biggest fan.  
  Now I know I'm one of many who  
  Would like to be your friend"      
   
 Ditto to what PS said!  Can't say it any better :-)

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