OK,I travel frequently to the same destination.I met a provider and spent the 1st hour just talking, felt like we really clicked. In the first 15 minutes,she said she would love to come visit me. ( I live 4 hours away by air )Although she works for an agency, she offered me her personal phone # and we are getting together soon for a long weekend. no "donation" is involved. Yes, we are both single. Am I crazy or should I just sit back and enjoy what comes, so to speak?

be careful of "falling in" for a provider ... ask any seasoned hobbyist ... it's called mistake numero uno

of course you will like to think and reason that THIS one is different  ... and that's mistake numero duo

there's no limit to how many mistakes you can make, actually ... so if you don't mind making repeated endless mistakes, by all means don't pay this cynic any heed!  LOL

It's like the best line in ADAPTATION - "But the girlyou loved was laughing behind your back?"  "I know, but even she didn't have a right to take away those feelings - they were mine."

I just had a wonderful 14 month affair with a great GFE that I 'clicked'with in the first hour.  Saw the world with her.  And then when it ended - as MOST relationships do after such time - I started to go back through the memories and started to feel like Bruce Willis in The Sixth Sense.  Remember the scenes where he was with his wife and they're not talking?  Then when he realizes he's dead he goes back through those memories and realizes he was never really there.  Well that happened to me when looking back at dating an escort.  You go through the memories and realize that many times- she wasn't really there.

But it was a still a great ride and I learned a hell of a lot from her.  So I say if you can hypnotize yourself past what really is going on - go for it.  

Don't ever fall for a provider,that,s a big mistake....  run..run like the wind.

Posting this under an alias for obvious reasons.  My question goes like this:  I've only seen one provider.  I'm concerned about LE, VD, and some other abreviations.  I like this one provider a lot and have seen her several times.  We get along great, she's great looking and fun in bed.  HOWEVER, she does not do BBBJ, BBBJTC, or really DFK.  She's $$$ but has indicated she'd happily take less from me (I suppose I'm OK looking, adaquate in bed and a gentleman).  Frankly, I don't really care if I pay her $$ or $$$.  Fun like this is what money is supposed to be used for.

Question:  Should the big head be thinking about taking the little head out for some variety?  Certainly, the more I see her, the more I'm going to want to see just her.  She's just a great person to be around.  Really special. Some ladies will get better "appearance" scores.  Some, by TER's strict numerics, will get better "performance scores.  Overall tho', she's just a great GFE for me.  Make sense?  What to do?

THANKS!!!
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a few things wrong with your situation:

1. if she doesn't do BBBJ(TC) and DFK she can hardly be called a true GFE (by most accepted norms)

2. if you've only seen one provider (her?) then you don't really know if she's "special" (that's a comparative label and you don't have much to compare her to)

3. given 1 and 2 above you should care whether you pay her $$ or $$$ (i would pay her the lesser amount, especially if she offered)

and finally

Q: "Should the big head be thinking about taking the little head out for some variety?"
A: most definitely

MMMmmm.   Taking your points in order:

 1. You understood correctly, no bbbjtc.  Nice kisses not nice, but not deep or long enough for me.  Whereas overly deep or French are paassionate,  They're erotic though.

  2. You're abolslutely right.  I have to acknowldge that.  She's at the top of my oist and I'm quite satisfiedl.  However, haven't seen any others (will make apopointments for three others in the next few weeks as you recommend.)



Thanks for your help!

Good advice.   Thought that now might be the time.  Thank you!!

If it is for real then go for it untill its "poof gone".

Many thanks to both you and singleton for the well considered responses!!  Much appreciated.