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Walking Away.
extman 1929 reads
posted
1 / 11

Hi, I just bon't know if I can just walk away if I found the provider is not the one on the photos, cuz there is possibility that she is actually a LE...

JackDunphy 568 reads
posted
2 / 11

But the likelihood of that is still quite low. And yes, you can walk away, and the reason you should do so is if the pics don't match, then you got "bait and switched". Girls that misrepresent themselves like that don't deserve to be patronized.

You can greatly diminish the odds that the pics won't match the girl AND that she isn't LE, by seeing only well reviewed girls here on TER, whose reviewers have written many reviews themselves.

To get access to all that info, you need to get VIP membership here, which I would STRONGLY recommend if you don't currently have it.

-- Modified on 6/3/2014 12:17:33 AM

ROGM 601 reads
posted
3 / 11

Sure you can walk out on her. If she is LE then you definitely should walk away.

gamahooch 138 Reviews 437 reads
posted
4 / 11

Walk away if the scene freaks you out.  Ugly motel room, mean dog by the bed, pimps hanging around outside, bad smell to the provider etc.  You should trust your instincts even if you have to go home and takes matters in hand.  There is always tomorrow.  Share the negative experience on TER so the rest of us know.

TalkToTrees 424 reads
posted
5 / 11

only if the pictures don't match the lady you were going to see. No need apologize if you are not comfortable. Remember, it's her "territory" and that gives her a sense of dictating how things are going to work in her favor.  

Just because a provider doesn't accurately represent herself does not automatically make her a cop.  

Like a few have said already... bad area, frequent LE busts, pimps roaming around are good reasons to walk or drive away.

In my 14 years of doing this, I had to walk away 3 times all for misrepresenting herself in the ads. That happened in the early days of my hobby. With the power of internet and websites like TER, I have not experienced that issue for many years.

The Forest Waits
 
Posted By: extman
Hi, I just bon't know if I can just walk away if I found the provider is not the one on the photos, cuz there is possibility that she is actually a LE...

ShakingtheSheets 189 Reviews 471 reads
posted
6 / 11

's easy for everyone here to talk tough. We can all tell you that you have the absolute right to walk away if the provider has miss-represented herself in her photos. We can tell you to walk away if you are uneasy about the surroundings or something doesn't feel quite right when you are standing in the room. And all those suggestions are correct. You have the absolute right to turn around and leave immediately.  

But the reality is, most men do not walk away. The obvious reason is that we think with our little head. Sure, the lady is not exactly what I had envisioned from her photos, but I came here to get laid, and this woman will certainly do the trick. Another reason is that men are fearful. Fearful of angering a provider by walking out the door. Fearful of the consequences that may come there way (whether the lady tries to blacklist him through TER, or worse, using personal information against him or tries to cause physical harm) .

So yes, you can certainly turn around and walk out the door. But at the moment you are face to face with the lady in her hotel room, it's a real hard thing to do. Don't let anyone tell you its easy.

DJ1985 21 Reviews 423 reads
posted
7 / 11

If she is LE the only place you will be walking is down to the van they put the Johns in.

GaGambler 444 reads
posted
8 / 11

I've done it on lots of occasions, but I am the exception as I am "black mail" proof.

Just remember, you aren't doing your self or any of the rest of us here any favors if you stay, I've lost track of the number of reviews that start off with "She wasn't the hottie in the pics, but I was there and I thought what the hell" virtually all of those reviews end up saying BAD MISTAKE.

The only way to end bad behavior is to refuse to reward it, every time you give an ROB a single penny, you are reinforcing in her mind that "it pays to lie". Don't do it. Even if it is hard to walk away, do it anyhow. You will be much happier, and you will be doing the community a service.

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 384 reads
posted
9 / 11

Nothing worst than expecting something of x quality and receive something completely different. It is the provider's fault to have such poor business ethics.

gamahooch 138 Reviews 326 reads
posted
10 / 11

Motels always make me think LE.  I have not usually found good sessions there.  I like it best when a provider has a nice apartment/condo/home where they work, in a safe neighborhood and with good parking.  Once inside if there is junk piled everywhere I am already sorry about the scene.  I really enjoy a clean, tidy location.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 395 reads
posted
11 / 11

time to leave and don't look back.  Let the big head make the choices.

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